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how can I regain my will power? my depression has made me lose the will to get up in the morning and its gotten so bad that I can't even do any of my assignments in college. I'm thinking of dropping out and working full time. what should I do?

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Poor Andrew. :( You have to remember what your ultimate goals are. Don't drop out of school, buddy. (You will greatly regret it later if you do.) You need someone to talk to. Friends are always good to talk to...and I'm here whenever you need me. You might want to also talk to a professional though. And I'm not saying that for you to get put on some kind of meds either...avoid that if you can, really. I know you are sad because you don't have a girl to love you yet. (Your time will come.) I was like that at your age as well...wanting to have someone special. I know it breaks your heart seeing all these other people in relationships and wondering why not yourself...been there. It will get better...and that's what you have to keep in mind. You need to focus on your schooling and a girl will just be a bonus you get along the way...trust me. Now, I know I probably did not give you the best answer in the world, but I just wanted to say a little...and also to let you know that I am always here for you. :)

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The only problem is I can't do any if the work cuz I've lost the will to do it. I kinda feel like when a dog hides somewhere so that he can die.
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I totally understand what you mean. I've been there at times with certain things I have had happen in the past few years. (I'm not trying to loud out my business on here...but just enough to maybe help you realize that I know what you are talking about and that it can get better.) There are still days that I feel no desire to do anything...not going to lie there. But, actually having someone to talk to (even if it's strangers on here...you get what I mean)...just talking helps. There are certain times that you have to just push yourself harder than before. Or if it's really hard that you are afraid you might fail your classes, maybe you can talk to a counselor there to see if you can get an Incomplete or something...then try again next semester. (Just don't drop out for good.)
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Andrew, respond to me when you are able to. I'm going to leave for now...and will check back later. Cheer up, buddy. You're a great person...and you deserve to be happy.
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But I'm ALWAYS like that. I never have the will to do anything. I just need someone to love. It's a basic human need.
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Aww...sweetie, I know. I know you probably don't believe me, but I really do understand. I know every single person is different...and it's also different from a male point of view than a female. You just have to try and fight it. Things WILL get better for you...I promise. You're still young, so it's even more intense...as in the fact that you are at a certain point in your life. (You just got out of being a kid...and I'm sure in ways, you still are...but then you are also starting adulthood.) That makes it even more confusing at times.
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But I'm sick of waiting!!!
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I know that. Andrew, I went through the same thing. It feels like forever...I get that. If it really bothers you that much, then you might have to make it happen for yourself. Just put yourself out there more...take charge. Even if you get rejected a few times in the process...who cares...find you a girl and try dating some. That's all I can really say. I can't physically get a girl for you. (If I knew someone your age...I would.)
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Answer me back when you get the chance...I'm out of here for a while. I will check on you later.
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I don't know what to say.
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That's all right. Just think positively. Things will get better for you...if you let them. :) I will talk to you later.
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I'm gonna get out if school. My parents are okay with that. They agree that college isn't for everyone.
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Forever...or just for a little while?
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Just a little while. A few years most likely.
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Whatever makes you happy. You're still young and you have PLENTY of time. :)
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Just don't wait too long...to go back to school.
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Okay. And I've been talking to this girl on her though Facebook and texting and I really really like her. But she lives in Georgia. I kinda want to move there.
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Silly. Don't jump too far ahead. It's fabulous you found someone to talk to (your age, I mean), but just enjoy that first...the friendship part, I mean. I know how you are feeling, so you don't have to explain to me...but just don't be too aggressive in your thinking. I just don't want to see you get hurt ever again, okay? And no, I am in no way saying that is going to happen (I promise)...I am just saying not to put your whole heart in too soon. Makes sense, right?
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Yeah. But still she like me a lot too. And they film my favorite show (the walking dead) in Georgia.
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Of course, Andrew...still, I am only looking out for you...as I always will. :)
I've got to go, so I will talk to you later.
(I'm so happy your mood has improved somewhat.) :)
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Slow it down, buddy.
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Huh? What do you mean?
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Don't move too fast with your new friend.
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We're moving fast enough ;)
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Lollipopslove

You should keep going to school.

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But I don't see the point to it anymore. I don't see the point in a lot of stuff anymore...
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Lollipopslove
Maybe you should see one of those college people and talk to them about how you feel. Or go to therapy or something. It could help
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Lollipopslove
And maybe you could try to find why your depressed.
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I am. And it's not really making a difference. It's just that I've never had a female companion and its really gotten me down... I makes me feel like I'm not good enough to be loved by a girl.
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Lollipopslove
Stop thinking that dude! You will find someone eventually it just might take some time. You are so good enough for a girl,But the right one just didnt come yet.
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I don't want the "one" just someone. I'm always depressed and I need companionship. It's a human need!!!
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Lollipopslove
Well then maybe you should work on getting a girlfriend. Do you find a interest in anyone? Start there.
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No I don't. I go I college an I can't really get crushes anymore.
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Lollipopslove
Well i dont really know what else to tell you. Just try to meet new people whatever chance you get.
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Yeah... Thanks.
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Lollipopslove
Sorry i feel like i didnt really help that much :/
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It's okay. Maybe I'll get used to crippling depression. I already can't really "fall in love" with girls anymore.
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Lollipopslove
Aww i feel so bad for you :(
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Yeah. Well you don't have to. I've been like this for 3 years.
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Lollipopslove
That sucks.Dont you have any friends you could hang out with to get your mind off things?
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Yes. But they don't get my mind off things.
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Lollipopslove
Oic Hmmmm....
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I just need someone to love. It's a human need.
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Lollipopslove
Awe it will happen some day. You sound so sweet :)
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Well no girls think so. They don't like me. And I'm sick if waiting!!!
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Lollipopslove
Well you are sweet so stop thinking your not. And if you dont feel like waiting then get out there and meet girls. Just talk to them and get to know them. You can meet people almost anywhere. And it shuld be even more easier for you because their are alot of parties in college.
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I never hear about any parties. And I have a 12 o'clock curfew. (I live with my parents)
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Lollipopslove
You can still meet people without going to parties.
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How? Nobody notices me.
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Lollipopslove
Im sure alot of people notice you. Anyways you could go to places people go like the park,the mall. Stuff like that :)
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Think of those people who want to study but can't and since you are endowed with the oppertunity to study make full use of it

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I'm already failing all my classes and of I drop out then somebody else might be able to get into the school.
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Wouldn't it be better if you complete your education and open schools later on to help such people and anyways In countries like India where more than 50% population is below poverty line that wouldn't count much as a sacrifice


Come on dude....brace yourself....you ain't a coward.fight with circumstances ....remember kites rise against and not with the wind and smooth seas never make skillful sailors
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As awesome as those phrases were its a lot harder than that. I'm lonely. I I've never had a female companion. It really depresses me. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough or I'm not worthy to have a girl that loves me.
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In that context I've neither had any experience so i can't say anything......but hey there must be your parents who love you...think of their expectations and feelings and try and fulfill them

And hey! in the Iron Man 1 pc game after waking till 4:00 a.m. I finally defeated Bruno Horgan ( You answered that question for me)

Perseverance does get rewarded!!!!!!
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Awesome!!
My parents don't help. They think its all in my head. They think I'm happy even when I tell them I'm not.
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So if you are really considering dropping out then pay a visit to a Depression
Counsellor ( Psychiatrist). One of my relatives had depression ( different from yours) and had suicidal tendencies but a visit to the psychiatric helped him a lot......

Take any decision after weighing it's pros and cons quite seriously

















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I do have a counselor but it doesn't really help.
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Then believe me and don't drop out. You'll regret it later
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I could always enroll again some other time.
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If you drop out then you will loose your greatest asset--education. You may work 24*7 but without educational qualifications you won't get a decent job, most of your mates after some years would have far better conditions then you. You'd get frustrated and then you will face an unbearable bout of depression which would be even harder to overcome

dude I wish you could read ' Balidan'( Sacrifice) by Premchand but it's in hindi
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Lol. Well I'm very smart already. And I want to be a police detective. I don't need a degree to be a cop.
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you are true to your name THE DEFIANT ONE
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Well most logical answer defy most people's answers
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okay then I gave my best shot .

but let me tell you what I feel. By God's grace we have been made humans. I mean i could have been any other creature too..laugh if you want but try and grasp the meaning....so now I have one life and have the capacity to do things which otherwise would have been impossible.....so I want to do something in my life which would make my life useful..........so that others remember it after I die

I know you'd be laughing your head off but that thought always makes me feel elevated above such things and I do not fall prey to depression............

There are more new challenges to face with each day but

right now I think I'll go to sleep .Good Night
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Oh yeah it's night time over there. Lol.
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Why the depression???? Can you identify the cause? Most colleges have people you can talk to, maybe you should take advantage of it!!

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It's complicated. I have never had a female companion and its really gotten me depressed. Like I'm not good enough for a girl to love me...
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Maybe because of the reason we were just talking about. Girls don't like guys who are selfish.
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Okay you made your point now leave me alone.
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You seem to be very sensitive, most women, like that. Try and be friendly to them, like saying good morning, how are you doing, and after a while, it becomes second nature.
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Okay.
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How about you take some medicine from a doctor.

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Fair enough. I wish I could though
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Why can't you? Just go to your doctor and tell him/her ur having a depression problem and your considering suicide (even though ur probably not) and ask them if u can take anything
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Lol. I understand you're trying I get back at me for the other question. But I can't do that.
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Actually I've gotten my revenge. Now I'm seriously trying to help. But never mind, i tried, I'm not going to bend over backwards for you since you don't appreciate it.
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Okay. Well I still can't get a prescription just by asking for one.
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Don't ask. Tell the doctor you're have suicidal thoughts and you've been stuck in a depression mode for a few MONTHS. He/She will have to give you something.
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I'm not gonna lie about suicide.
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Then you're probably not going to get the medicine. You can try telling them you've been in a depressed mood for a few weeks and see if they will give it to you. But idk, the only reason i got mine was because i was sent to a mental hospital where they officially certified me as psycho :) but i dont take it xD
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You crazy girl!!!! Lol
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*curtsies* thank you, thank you, I enjoy it xD
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Lol.
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aw I'm sorry you feel this way :( do you have friends you could hang out with? try to do things that will get your mind off it. If you Want to get closer to people just start by doing things like waving or smiling at them. You can keep a journal and write down youre feelings. do your friends know how you're feeling? just try to keep positive, negative thinking will only make things worse. remember that you're worth it. keep your head up and know things will change, you just have to be positive about it :)

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I do have friends but they don't help at all. I even find it hard to make myself get out of bed in the morning. I just don't have the will. I don't even have the will to do my assignments.
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why are you so hard on yourself andrew....?

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Because I've been depressed for 3 years.
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so snap out of it......
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what can be so bad that has you depressed for 3 years ...?
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I've never had a female companion. It's really depressed me over the years. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough to be loved by any girl. Like I'm not worthy...
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i didn't have my real first girlfriend until i turned 19 its not a big deal andrew trust me your going to have so many girlfriends don't rush this be cool....
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your smart and your a good looking guy ... you just have to work on you approach on girls ...
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I'm sick of waiting man!!!!!
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they are so many people who love you and care for you here its impressive....
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Yeah on here. I wish there were girls from where I live on here.
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thats what I'm talking about you need to relax take a deep breath ....
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where do you live
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Laredo Texas.
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whats your routing for the week what do you do... start from mondays what i mean is do you go out much ...
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aside from school what hobbies do you have do you have friends you can go out with...?
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I do have time to do things and I so have friends but they don't really help.
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hhmm i see I'm working but ill get back to you later on today don't worry andrew its going to be ok
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No it's not. It never will be. It can't.
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Not to cut in but don't be so depressed and hard on your self. It takes time to find the right one she is out there you just got to keep your head up. I know how you feel because i'm 19 and been single for a long time, it hurts but it makes you more determined to find the right one. You look like a nice, sweet guy and any girl would be luckly to have you. Good luck with everything :) Don't give up. :)
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Well they obviously don't think I'm nice sweet or cute. And I'm not looking for the "one". It's not like I'm trying to get married.
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i meant to say "girlfriend" not "the right one." sorry my bad.
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It doesn't matter. It's never gonna happen.
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andrew you just got complimented by one of the prettiest girls on ask.... pay attention to her you need to know how to listen ..... and it is going to happen.....
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Well i will say this because I learned the hard way as long as you talk negative you will be depressed. Just try thinking positive and keep you head up. :)
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But she doesn't see me with my glasses on. And sure it'll happen. But WHEN?!?!?! I don't want to wait until I'm 25!!!!!!!! Or even 19!!! I'll DIE before that happens.
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I have nothing to think
Positively about. I have nothing to be confident about. I'm a LOSER!!!!
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Well I don't know when, It's really weird that i'm talking to you about this because I'm going through
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Well how old are you?
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i'm 19 lol and u?
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18.
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Oooh alright. Well hey have you ever tried a dating site?
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No. I'm 18. Dating sites are for lonely people in their 30s. Lol
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Well I must be in my 30s then lol because I have one. Sometimes you csn find ppl that way.
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Plus you have to pay for it. And hey you don't need a satin site. You can email me.
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*dating
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lol that's ture.
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Put yours on your profile and ill reach you through mine
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You still there??
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Yeah... Well I live in G.A and we are fixing to have some really bad weather so imma let you go so my laptop won't get cooked by the lighting lol. I'll get back on here later :) ttyl!
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Are you gonna give me your email?
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Bye ^3^
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wow andrew pretty smooth = }
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Yeah. It's weird right? If ask was in real life then I'd probably have been with 20 girls by now!!
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andrew please listen very carefully shes a really nice girl don't slam her with 20 emails just send one and then let her respond don't push anything these things take time ok.... be friends first then see if theres a connection ...
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^ aww, you think i'm nice lol
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Hi Andrew:-) you sound like an intelligent young man. I'm a 50 year old woman, so I know a think or three. I'm from Ga. also...I have a really good friend with a daughter in college who has never even been on a date, she will graduate this spring. She keeps hoping someone will ask her out. She's tall, funny, very attractive, beautiful figure, awesome smarts, athletic. She is going on her first date next week! She's 22. The point is there is someone out there just waiting for you. Believe in yourself sweetness!!! When you go to bed tonight find a single reason to smile. In the morning find another single reason to smile. Say hello to people you don't typically speak to on your way to class in class and after class. At your favorite resturant, the gym. Where ever you hang out. Do this everyday and before you know it someone will be looking forward to and waiting on your smile and your greeting. Best wishes
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I wish I had a reason to smile...
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andrew you just got her email if that doesn't put a smile on your face i don't know what will... ( well i do know but ) you need to be more positive my friend....
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Hawkman. I really really like her.. I feel weird. Kinda... Happy
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then talk to her email her but be cool = ]
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We're already texting and on Facebook.
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take it slow
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She asked me too.
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thats good remember be cool thats the key
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I think I'm going at the perfect speed. Lol
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You there?
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yep whats up andrew...?
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I think I might want to move to Georgia. O_O
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haha lol wow hey at least your taking it slow....
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Well as slow as I need to be ;)
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RedRose
hawk is right about going slow, but you should also remember tht girls like-no love-compliments. so don't come off too strong (we can smell desperation) but flirt with her a little, or tell her she's beautiful. im really happy for you andrew, good luck!
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RedRose

You need to work on finding ways to be happy.
if your depression is really bad you can get diagnosed and get mediacation for it. its important that you do whatever it takes to find happiness. do you know the cause of your depression?

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I've just never had a female companion. It's really gotten me depressed over the last 3 years. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough to be loved by a girl. Like I'm not worthy.
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RedRose
I understand the need for companionship, and the feeling your describing. its got to be hard, but being depressed about it will ONLY make things harder! A) you won't ba able to concentrate on the great thing in your life if you always just let yourself feel down. B) it'll be even harder to get girls because its not fun being around someone who is constantly down and negative. You need to start looking for good and enjoying yourself.
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shes 100 percent right andrew listen to her = }
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RedRose
yay :D thanks hawk!
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rose ......?
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RedRose
watsup?
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hey = )
i just wanted to say hi and how was your trip = }
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RedRose
amazing thank you! i jumped off a cliff! and got super tan :D whats new with you?
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i was just going to say that if you got a tan = )
did you jump off the cliff willingly..?
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RedRose
hahaha yeah! 30 ft high, it was awesome
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i hope this doesn't sound creepy or weird but i missed talking to you...
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RedRose
it sounds neither creepy nor weird, i missed you too. whats new?
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wow 30 ft thats pretty high ... Thats good to do that kind of things because you face your fears and theres no stopping you in whatever career you choose....
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i love being adventurous so it was terrifying but thrilling at the same time
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thats good taking chances like that is whats it all about...i take plenty of risks too like this morning it was so cold that instead of wearing 3 sweaters i wore just 2 so yeah i like living on the edge = /
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RedRose
WOW you are so bad@$$!
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not only that but tonight I'm setting the heater to 80 degrees instead if 78 if thats not dangerous i don't know what is = /
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RedRose
:O pace yourself, hawk! you still have to think of safety!
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but I'm wearing the 3 sweater = {
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RedRose
*sigh of relief*
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so is it back to school now...
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RedRose
sadly, yes :( back to the same old routine
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aaww sorry but hey you get to see your friends = }
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RedRose
true that :) hows work?
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its good been working long hours but its ok...if you have to get some rest i understand i dont want to keep you awake....
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RedRose
what do you do?
its not late here at all, im good. was tht a hint that you need to go though?
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It didn't work out with her. But it's alright.
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no its not a hint not at all i enjoy every minute talking to you = } im in san diego its 9 :10 pm i dont go to sleep till later ....and im in construction mostly
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aww andrew what went wrong....?
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you where doing so good what happen.....?
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Nothing. It's just too much distance. It's okay. I'm not even that upset. Lol
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look at it this way you almost hooked up with a very pretty girl so you do have skills be positive andrew and i can bet anything that you will have all kinds of girls wanting to be with you....
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glad to hear that youre doing okay andrew
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Focus on how much better life will be when you reach your goal

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I agree and disagree with Joshua_Bagel. I think you should focus on the people who love you, that will always boost you spirits

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But nobody loves me.
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I love you
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Lol. But seriously though nobody in real life loves me except my family.
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But isn't that all that matters?
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Not really. They're SUPPOSED to love me. It's expected of them.
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But really, is it? is it?
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It's expected of MY loved ones.
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I see that you really just need to feel loved, or maybe even just a friend. If you drop out of school this isn't going to help you, in fact you will most likely not have time to find someone. I say stay in school, reach out towards a club or a team, maybe even a roommate or someone in a class and ask if you can hang out or something. But if you feel you are having trouble in school, not just social, maybe you can create a study group, that's like hitting two birds with one stone, new friends and getting work done. Set goals for yourself and rewards for when you reach them, those are always exciting to get.

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None of that stud works for me for some reason.
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Well I don't know if any of the subjects you are taking are on here but Khan academy can really help with some subjects, like math and science, they show out all of the work and explain how they got it. If its memorization try using quizlet, you can make flashcards on there and print them or lists, even play games I think.
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Also I know you probably don't want to hear this from someone so much younger. Whenever someone asks why I am single, first of all I would ask why would I want to be stuck to someone when I can be free right now at such a young age, and also be cause I generate to much awesomeness for them to want to be with me. You need to find the plus side to every situation. Is there anything specifically bothering you?
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BTW let us know how everything goes!
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Talk to a nurse or councilor. Depression is an illness, you have to fight it with people who know how to do it. Nothing wrong with working instead of college, if that is what you want for real though. I guess the real question is why are you depressed. Is it because you don't want to be in school? Is there something else you want? I wish you the best.

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ninja1000

what are you depressed about?

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I've never had a female companion. It's really gotten me depressed for the last 3 years. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough to be loved by a girl. Like I'm not worthy...
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ninja1000
dude i like you!!!!!!!!!!!!
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but you cant ever see you
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ninja1000
ok have a nice day:(
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You don't count. Not only do you only know me from the Internet but you're too young for me.
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ninja1000
othank you:(I realy was hopeing to find some one who actualy cares and gives a wip about me and i was wrong again...thank you for expressing your feelings...see you later.
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see ya!:(
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That's not what I meant.
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ninja1000
then what do you mean?
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That I'm depressed that nobody I know in person likes me.
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ninja1000
go move to a diffrent place people will love you
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ninja1000
hey how are you,because i am not doing so great sl!t my wr!st
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What the F**K?!?!
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ninja1000
what its healing?and no one likes me every that why i did it?i know how you feel....i am turning into a mess....Help me...i need your help i only trust you my freinds dont care you are the only one who actual cares about me.
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do u think i am losing it?
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ninja1000
i am losing it i dont blame you for not talking to a crazy person like me sorry
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Talk to me then.
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hay dont drop outta college if u think of sumthing funny or sum grl u lik then u will get through it u r a pretty fit boy dont let depression get 2 u ive had it and i got through it u can do it just think positive ;) xxxxx

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I just don't think college is for me.
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I don't know whether my answer is gonna be helpful...but I know what you're going through to some extent. I've been there, am there right now. It seems like everything is just going into the trash eh? Like you tried, and failed and there didn't seem to be any point in carrying on? Well...that may not be what your going through, but it's what I'm going through right now. So as I said I can relate to you to some extent. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here :) Depression is common in most people, hell, I'm depressed right now hahaha....but if you find that one thing that you really need to fight for, or want to fight for, if you can find that one thing that DOES get you out of bed every morning, that convinces you to do those assignments, then you're on to something. Don't give up :) Remember, you're not a failure if you fail, failures are only those who don't try at all...and I believe that you've tried...so KEEP ON TRYING :) and I'm here if you need to talk :D

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I've actually gotten WAY better!!
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really? that's great! how so?
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I'm talking to this really nice girl from Georgia.
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annnnddd???? haha :) things are going well? how'd you meet? did you know each other previously, or is it like an internet thing?
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It's an Internet thing. We met on a comment on an answer to this question.
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ah, I see, saw, have seen.... yeah never mind. Hope it all works out :) And I'm very happy for you :D
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Me too. The only problem is she loves over 1,000 miles away.
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ahhhh.....I see...and you mean lives right? haha. Have you thought of taking like a couple of days trip to go over there to meet her? Like just a few days to see if things would work out?
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Maybe.
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okay. But if you really want this to work, I'm pretty sure you should meet her in person first...but hey, that's just my opinion. I really hope it works out for you :D
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Yeah. Me too. Lol
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good luck :D
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1Q7PWN1jE0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLsjQltg0yo
I really hope this^ helps :)
just remember ~you no longer walk alone :)

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Thx for following me! ^-^ Hope this helped, and I hope you follow your dreams and stay in school!
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I'm probably gonna take a break from school for a while.
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everything's fine as long as you don't give up :)
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Hi there Andrew.I've been reading your problem and your answers and have given them a lot of thought.From what i've understood you are feeling much better now right?So i will keep this short,don't rush yourself and down put yourself down so easily.You have any idea how many guys are in the same boat?you are so young and have all the time in the world and when i say this i don't mean in 10 years.stop trying so hard and it will come in no time and when it comes try not to smother it.You are a great looking guy but if you don't see it others won't either.We have all been there sometime or other.

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Well I'm happyER
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good to hear.u can call upon me anytime.
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stay in collage and see a therapist

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No and I see a counselor. I just need a break from school.
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dont drop out u will ruin ur whole life there arent many jobs u can get without a collage degree
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Yes there are and I'm just talking about a break. I'll go back later.
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ok bud
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your picture makes you seem really happy

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keep your head up high don't give up on your self i'm here for you. This feeling I have almost every day. I know people need you. Stay strong for every one around you. Follow your dreams never give up on your self.

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They're all strong without me. And coincidentally my first name is Michael!! I read your page. Lol! ^_^
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:) lol well keep your head up.
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Think about it. Drop out? That's serious. If you want anything accomplished you should continue going to school. As for your depression, have you thought about seeing a therapist? Even without seeing a therapist you could try and look on the bright side of things. Even if its as little as eating a tasty treat. Hope that made sense. :)

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I'm just gonna take a break from school.
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