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How can I stop physical bullying at my school?

I'm getting seriously bullied at school. people push me into lockers, dump food down the back of my shirt, steal my backpack, at my school even the teachers sometimes "accidentally" call me bad luck :( this is driving me crazy i'm to the point where i started cutting i have no idea how to stop the bullying or how to just ignore it (if that's even possible) i'm just tired of bruises, my parents don't care i have talked to them and all they did was talk to the kids but that actually made it worse. so please any answers?

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You need to talk to your school counselor about this. S/he will help you and put your mind at ease and will probably talk to the school principal about the problem. If the matter comes to the principal's attention, the culprits will be punished severely, hopefully, and then the bullying will stop.

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Dude you're in a bad spot for surel. the best thing you can do is make an issue of this to the office staff and school board. if they don't correct it go to the police. that being Said, don't take the sissy way out and cut yourself. that's silly. man up and kick some bully azz

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I'm serious. Go up as far as you need to. Even to police. No one should have to be bullied. In my day we took care of bullies ourselves. We didnt cut ourselves. Silly
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I'll try
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Good response, Peter!
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Peter is right on this!
I raised my ex wifes son like my own son..
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He had Aspergers Syndrome and was a constant object of bullying .
while my wife went thru the necessary political channels.. I was teaching him self defense..after all was exhausted I met with his school principal and told that my son ... though by no means believed in violence but was in the future going to defend his personal space..
3 days later my son was expelled for fighting. That day he won the respect of his peers, did in fact defeat a bully ... he didnt have to win the fight.. he only had to take a stand
He was never bothered in school again.
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Amen blades. You rock
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Blades, that was the best thing you could ever do for him. Yes, he was expelled but there was no shame - in fact, there was honor. (Why was he expelled for standing up for himself? Ah, schools and their rules!)
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Blades, I meant to add: You're a great dad!
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My father always told me that I didn't have to put up with bullies. If they struck first he expected me to strike back. I was suspended 2 times over the years. He was never mad. Had I been the one to start it if have Been in trouble. I taught my boys the same.
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Peter, my mother said her Dad told them that if someone started a fight and they didn't fight back, he would whip them good when they got home! My parents were almost the same. I was lucky because I was the youngest of several and two of my sisters loved to fight. Since I attended the same school all the way through, everyone knew my family and left me alone.
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That's a good thing. !
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You can't stop bullying. It's the human nature.

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I know but I just wanna help i see it happen everyday to other kids and it happens to me as well :(
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Talk to someone at your school. A teach you trust maybe, i know it's going to be embarsing but that's your only option cause you can't stop it alone. Am so sorry you are going through this, no should really :(

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Dont be sorry its not your fault :/ and ill try that I hope it works because it's not only me getting abused like this i also see it happen to other people
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that's so sad. There should be stricked rules to force these people to act normally with their class mates or who ever
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It will pass, nothing last forever just be strong now :)
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First of all, stop and document what has happened specifically and clearly. This will help you sound clearheaded when you talk to people in authority. Often, people get emotional and forget key points. Start with a trusted teacher, librarian, custodian, or any adult at school. If they don't help, go to the principal. If he or she doesn't help, then go to the superintendent. If you cannot get help there, ask to be put on the agenda for the next school board meeting. Present your case to the board and if they don't help, let them know you will take your story to the local media. Sometimes that helps the school decide to take action. ****Now, that was my answer as a teacher. My answer as a mother would be to reread peter35's answer. Learn how to fight back. Good luck. Nobody deserves to be bullied.

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Best Answer!
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Thanks, blades! :)
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Try to stay away from them or try not to let them touch you or other people and dont worry about the teachers they always do that to me. Dont let them get to you to where your hurting YOURSELF because they are im sorry this is happening but it happens to alot so dont hurt yourself because of it Maybe ask your guardians and see if you can switch schools if you dont like this one

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Beat some ass

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just beat one kids ass an thell all stop

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