Stupid stuff......like what??? I think we all have a different meaning of "stupid"......does HE think the things you're saying are stupid....or are you just beating yourself up over nothing?? Sometimes people say "stupid" things because they are trying to impress someone....could that be what's going on here?
Think about why you say stupid stuff. Does he make you nervous? Are you trying to impress him? There could be lots of reasons why you say "stupid" things. You need to figure out the reason and deal with that then the words of wisdom will just fly right out!
Well? If you're boyfriend isn't willing to deal with your "excess baggage's" because he's so perfect then better find a new one. There will ALWAYS be times when either one or both of you do something UNINTELLIGENT and NONSENSICAL. Doesn't mean you're stoopid or a dumdum, not at all. Just means you're a spontaneous person who enjoys the thrill of the moment be it stoopid or clever just to be honest and open to yourself, the one's you love and the world.