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How do i get a girl to like me without her knowing i am trying to get her to like me?

I understand that this will be tricky but i have a year until prom when i want to ask her to go with me. The last girl i asked out i thought liked me but she didnt so how will i know when she likes me? I am hopeless with this stuff so please help.

P.S. i m sorry about the category but my computer decided not to cooperate today

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Comming from a girl, literally we are so easy you can get any girl to melt if you just talk to her a lot and listen and show her you care, also be yourself! For me i always like really caring guys because i feel no one really understands or makes an effort to.. dont hold back too much.. i would give little hints here and there that u like her..idk complement her or something or jokingly or in a friendly way put your arm around her see what happens~ if its ment to be it will be~

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Well if u relly want her you would tell her how you feel !!!!! It never helps to hold it in eve though you may not want her to know, if you hold it in its even worse I may not kno u and I'm in 8 grade but I'm confident this will work

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Tell me how everything works out:)
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Okay
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Hmm you can't really "make" a girl like you. I wish it was possible though! Sorry about your situation ;(

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by flirting, yes
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Ehhh rarely
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but it still works
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Well, flirt with her, smile when she talk, listen carefully, connect with eyes, try to be intimate by trying to touch her hand or something by mistake ( like reaching for the sam thing)
And if she like you, she will flirt, she will smile, play with her hair and all that stuff
Good luck
P.S. i too have a year until prom

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Try to get to know her better. But don't obsess about it, like saying "hi" to her every time you see her.

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Treat her right. It will work out if it is supposed to.

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Why would you want someone that doesn't like you to like you??

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Why not?
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Wouldn't you rather be with someone that just liked you for you?
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telling a girl how u really feel never works. most of my friends get friend zoned. only one person who said that out of my 400 friends said that and he said it right before he asked her out

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dont worry be yourself it is possible just learn the ways what that particular girl likes

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