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How do you know if someone's really a lesbian?

I'm really curious. I kinda understand how g@y guys are like that and why. I'm curious and want to know about this one.

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Other than asking them directly about their sexual preference, there really aren't any sort of overt signs that would definitely signal that someone was a lesbian. Even if you saw them with another woman, that could just mean that they are bi, or pansexual. Asking is the only way.

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yeah, just curious about a mate. kinda suspicious about all of it and was wondering what the signs are.
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It can be that they're in denial and all but yeah. thanks
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That's just it though - there's not really any specific signs. Any action that someone does, even if it might seem that they are leaning in one direction or another, could just be a case of being overly friendly. Or they may not even realize that they are doing it.
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Who are you curious about?
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There are no such thing as "signs" to tell if someone is gay. How do you tell if someone is hetero? Silly. A person is person and that is it.

Also, unless they are flirting with YOU, it does not matter and is not your business.

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There is no telling, unless you ask. Lesbians are lesbians, gays are gays, and that's just how the world goes. But I prefer men.

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