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please I need advice on what I should do with my relationship with me and my friend!!

so one of my best friends had to leave school early because he wasn't feeling good. my other best friend texted her on my phone asking her if she was okay. she then began scrolling through my texts and read some things along the lines of her hanging out with her other friend a lot instead of us. he got pissed off and left my table and went to the other side of the room. she then turned around and said, " it's nice to know that the people who I thought were my friends are talking about me behind my back." I said sorry several times but she just glared at me. I feel horrible and my other best friend is crying her heart out now because of it. I texted my friend that is mad at me and I texted her this hi ummm... I just want to say I'm really sorry about what you saw today. and you don't have to accept this apology but in trying to make things right and I don't want to fight with you cause honestly, you're one of my best friends. I'll be completely honest with you. I have occasionally talked about you behind your back saying things like you hang out with him a lot and stuff but only because I'm jealous of you! again you don't have to accept this cause I can completely understand if you're still angry at me but I'm jealous of everything about you .. first of all, you're the prettiest gurl in the world and no one can prove that statement wrong. second, you're probably the most talented person in the world. third, you have the amazing ability to make friends whereas I have to make such a big effort to become friends with someone. fourth, you have the best personality in the world... I can go on forever saying this but I'm just super sorry for about what happened today. i was just having a bad day and it got worse when we fought so I'm really truly sorry and I don't want to fight anymore. I love you and I don't want to throw our friendship down the toilet. I'm sooooo sorry about that incident today and from now on, I will be completely 100% honest with you even if it might make you mad. I can understand if you're still mad at me and want to chop my head off with your ice skating blades show things but I'm sincerely sorry. please forgive me!!! what do you guys think I should do. she hasn't responded to my text yet and I'm thinking of making things right and apologizing to her tomorrow at school. I feel horrible inside and I just want to know that I at least tried to mend out broken friendship because I don't want to lose one of my very best friends!!!!!

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You said sorry enough. Ya it's bad that you backstabbed one of your friends but you apologized. You basically wrote her a novel about how your sorry. If I were you I would just give her space. Don't bother her for the next few days unless she comes talking to you. Because if you keep apologizing and doing things to make her not be mad at you anymore, she's going to use that as an advantage.

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thanks. I just don't want our friendship to go to waste. she's one if the best people I know and I don't want to lose her. but thanks ill try and let her cool off.
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Sounds good :)
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You know that the first text you sent her made her upset and you need to give her time to calm down. She is your best friend and I believe she also have you at heart. What you need to do is to give her some time to think about it and respond later as you have been very honest with your words.

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the thing is that she can hold a grudge for the longest time. at her old school, she held a grudge against her ex best friend for about a couple months. I don't want that to happen to us but I do believe she is overreacting and she's not giving me a chance to explain myself. she also lies a lot so I don't know if I can trust her anymore.
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