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I Hate My Grandmother With A Passion. I'm Not Sure What To Do

I hated her ever since I was 8 years old .. she would always call me ugly , dumb stupid and etc.. At 8 she was mad because I didn't know how to clean the bathroom very well . I left the towel dripping . She beat me even when I was on the floor she kept on . 9-11 years old she kept giving me beatings for the littlest things . because I didn't see something on the floor and didnt pick it up she beat me ! seriously it was simple stuff like that . then at 12 she started calling me a b^txh , mofo , whore , s l u t , etc . just because I became friends with more boys then girls . she would hit me even then because I wouldn't do what she wanted ! like if she wanted me to fix her room I wouldn't mind but if I was trying to do homework or study I really would want to finish that then clean her stuff . but no she would beat me nd rip my hair out and threaten to kill me . she choked me serval times . now im cutting and stuff trying to get rid of steam . also she makes everyone in the household mad everyday when she comes home she complains about EVERYTHING . I Meann EVERYTHING we clean the house for her like everyday so she won't complain but damn she's never happy she adds stuff and says like oh you could of done this or that . I can't even lay down because she starts to complain on how lazy I am when I do everything in the house ! I use to get bad grades because if her I now come home at 8 pm to not be home with her I sign up to get away from her but when I get home I can't deal with her anymore it's just ugh sometimes I feel like running away I don't know what to do . thanks for reading .

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my mom, dad, and grandma abused me and everyone at school did too they woulde beat me and emotioaly abuse me and cyber bully then i went to church (not catholic) and i had people pray for me and i swear the next day made a bunch of friends and the bullies stoped and the abuse at home stoped

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Look me up on youtube for the whole story I am on there under the name Lydia Horn and the first video is called "1/6 Child Abuse, Illness, Drugs, Suicide, Bullying, and Doubt: My Story" the rest will be uploaded soon. :) There is other stuff on my channel too. :) I wish you the best
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Maybe you've just got to deal with it. If there are some people who could help you, talk to them

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that is not ok!! you have to tell her to stop now! you don't deserve this! if she doesn't stop, you have to report!!

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She doesn't care . And if I report her worst things will happen
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what do you mean worst things will happen!!?? abuse is illegal!! tell the police your grandmother is abusing you and tell them you dont want to live with her anymore. im sure you'll find a family who will want to keep you.
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Shortiie.... You can always call Human Services on her. You will be taken away and put in to foster care.... Sometimes that is better, sometimes it isnt. Your Grandmother can be put in prison for assault and battery for what she is doing.
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If it's just you two, call child abuse services. Now. If it's you and the whole family (mom, dad, brother, etc.) get them to kick her out. Tell them what's going on.

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Depends how old you are..you have any other relatives you can live with? Even if its out of state? if you still have bruises go report even if you dont but report her so they put her somewhere else and get a restraint order that way she cant get anywhere near your house

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I'm 14 and no .
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Well report her and put a restraining order. You said theres more people in the house right?
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I realize she is your grandmother.... but their is no law that requires you to love her. If all of this is going on.... Why do anything for her? Does your mother not see this? When you get old enough to leave home... you dont ever have to see her again. I am truly sorry that you have a grandmother like this. My Grandmother was my most favorite person on this planet. She still is but she is now a little more "in" the planet then on it.

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If I don't do the things she wants all I get us hurt
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Dont feel guilty about any ill feelings you might have towards her. Do not harm her in any way... that is just wrong, but... You do not have to like her and when you move away from home... You dont ever have to see her again. Sounds as though she has some sort of mental problem.... honestly.
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report her! and never believe the crap she tells you. wish u the best

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talk to an adult and or policeofficer

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you can sit down with her and explain all...that you just wrote,if it doesn't work it, don't you have other relatives to stay with or siblings to support you?!

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why dont you have anyone
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Start by packing your essentials, and heading to school. Report the problem to the school nurse. They are really good at these types of problems. You will never have to see wicked granny again. Just be ready to move on.

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Talk to somebody about what she does and maybe see a counselor to let it all out. If you're like me, then you hate going to counselors because it makes you feel awkward and it makes other people think that your mentally challenged. But it feels really good to talk to somebody that won't judge you. Make sure you report your grandmother because that's not natural.

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Oh, sweetie, it sounds horrible.

Okay, so in this situation, maybe a simple talking session isn't possible, but if you have a cell phone, keep it with you and try to talk to her. Try to keep her calm, and be very aware of haw far she is from you, and where her hands are. If you've already tried that, it is probably best to put some distance between you and her. Getting out of the house as much as possible is a temporary solution, but it doesn't solve the problem. As long as you're a minor, you can't go somewhere else (besides social services).

My only solution to suggest is to call the police on her. If she's gotten violent with you, she'll do it again.

Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

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You report her,and even if you think its not right,or worst things will happen,CALL.THE.COPS, she might go to jail,and if she was there,there is no way she can get to you. Just go and report her,even if no family,you might be put with a better family and you will live bette, you dont want to wait 4 more ears with that crap.

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Talk to a school counselor they can better tell you how to handle/ what to do. Ps. When someone treat you or talks to you in this manner its not about you, has nothing to do with you its about them, something went wrong in her life and she doesnt know how to cope. doesnt give her the right. people who are hurting , hurt other people.;/ she needs help, but that's her problem not yours.

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You say there are others in the household. Are they not able to see what is happening and help you? Are you the only one being abused? Maybe you should talk to your school counselor, as others here have suggested. I wish you the best.

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put her i a nursing home and call it a day

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ha I wish
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:) dont wish make it a reality
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I just want to say that I'm really sorry. :( You should report this to the police. You can't continue like this, I would also say don't try running away.

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I'll pray for you. (:

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