He Cheated On Me Now What?
I've been dating this man for 2 in a half years, I just found out yesterday that he was contacting a girl that lived a few towns away on facebook. He works off shore and until now I thought he was a very upstanding man with morals. I found out he was cheating when I got suspicious that he was hiding something. when I asked for his phone and he immediately locked it and didn't get back on it for the rest of the day, I logged into his email because I had something sent to his address because I couldn't log into mine, in his sent messages were many messages from him to women giving them his number so they could exchange pictures, I also found inappropriate pictures of a girl I noticed her face because she had added me on facebook and she texted him very often she was a "Friend" of his. I confronted him and he told me she randomly sent him those pictures so in a blinding rage I wrote her on facebook and it turns out she sent me the facebook messages between her and him. he was planning on going to meet her and calling her babe he was even calling her from work which now makes sense because he always took way to long to call me. we've talked about this and I'm torn apart by all of this. I have never pegged him as a cheater but I was proved wrong. I love him to death I really do. I want to try to work past this but I can't help but to keep re reading the messages between them in my mind at night and when I look at him. I need serious answers. how can we mend what is now broken?