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How can i tell my parents that im pregnant ?

Im 16 . My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Please I need help. NO NEGATIVE comments

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just tell them its not very hard, gotta be grown ups now and tell them like a mature person.

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just tell them to sit down and probably say it when there really happy so there not so mad

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just tell them, you'll have to deal with the consequences of your irresponsibility on your own. Simply be honest with them, and explain the situation.

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Ummm...invite your boyfriend over for dinner. Tell your parents after dinner together.

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That's a horrible idea!! Her dad might kill him
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Depends on the type of dad though. If he's the type of parent who would beat the s*** out of the bf, then don't invite him over. Lol.
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iinluemgk you need to come out and tell his and your parents
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then boyfriend won't come out alive
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she still needs to tell them it's better to tell them because sooner or later they will find out
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I'd Kill the f*ck that got my baby girl pregnant... The hell you thinking?
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well she does not need to lie about it
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It helps if you cry at first.

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Just sit them down and tell them. Honesty is the only way to go. I know it is going to be hard, but your parents love you, and you will get through it. Honestly telling them is not going to be the hardest thing you have to do ahead of you. Having a baby comes with a lot of hard things to do.

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sit down and talk to them and let them know that you will always be there for your kid

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Say"mom dad I'm pregnan"

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Mom I'm pregnant.

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Be upfront and honest with them. Don't hide it from them eventually they will find out and it won't go too well. (Not saying its gonna go well when you tell them.)

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Sit them down and tell them. It'll be better that you tell them before they see the bump.

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If your parents like him, tell them together. If they don't, tell them by yourself. Be prepared for them NOT to be immediately happy or supportive, this changes all of the plans and dreams they had for you as well as any plans they might have been making for themselves of which you are unaware.

If they are angry and lash out at you, keep calm. Nothing constructive will come from you giving them attitude or a lot of lip. The storm will blow over quicker if you don't give it fuel.

Get yourself some prenatal care as soon as possible. Then talk with your parents about what will happen next. Good luck.

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Thanks this really helped
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Just tell just get it over with already :)

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Ohh darling that ain't good. Pregnant at 16 is going to really mess a lot of things up for you the easy part is telling your folks before they find out on their own and they won't be too happy. You've got to sit down with them just your mom and dad and tell them "I'm pregnant". And from there just do what you need to do.

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Step 1. Say "mom, dad"
Step 2. Say " I'm"
Step 3. Say "Pregnant"
No abortion please.

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I'm a mother of a 16 year old, and I pray every day that she is making the right choices. First I say booo to your mother for not having you on birth control. Teens are going to do it no matter what. So might as well protect them. Second booo to you and you bf for not using a condom. If you old enough to ride the bull you better be prepared to rope the calf. Time to grow up and act like adults. So sit your patents down and tell them like it is. Good luck kiddo your gonna need all the help your can get.

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i was on birth control and by parents i meant my dad and his fiance ,, my mother passed away
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good say really booo , but sometimes it happens ;/ I hate when boys & girls can't control their Sexual power -_-
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& melissa_2016 sorry about your mother :(
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Melissa_2016 if you were on bc you shouldn't have gotten prego if you were taking them correctly. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. Best of luck to you.
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Hey, it was your decision to do it, now it's time to face the music. Just come right out and say it..... also prepare for either a really long lecture, or your parents screaming their heads off

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What's happen is happen, Just sit them down & they probably know about u have boyfriend right ? ? ? so slow slow tell them but do it as soon as is possible cause every min you let it you'll hurt cause you are in Pregnancy now so you need to been under care, & even if you don;t want your baby, your parents can help you in that, the best way is tell them soon & so normal Just tell them you wanna talk to them about something Important, then sit them down & say about it
Good Luck

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Start randomly calling your mom " grandma"

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i wish i could give more advice and help you with this one girl. my friend got pregnant at 16 and she was scared her parents would kick her out but when she told them it was the opposite. have faith that everything will turn out fine :) good luck <3

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i havent really had much experience in this but my thought is that you should tell your parents,if the relationship between your boyfriend and parents is good then he can comfort you through the discussion.but it be best just for you three to discuss your situation.... best of luck and stay strong because its moments like these can show how much your parents care...

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i got preagnet at 13 was scared as hell i told my mom "i will get a job and take full responsibility, im preagnet."

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Tell them you were trying to have some fun and problems happen all the time. This time it was a bigger mistake than you expected and you hope they understand. I f they don't then you are screwed. Try to work it over as much as possible before giving up though.

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ok THIS is how you do it, you sit both of them down and tell them that with your boyfriend you were really happy with him and you trusted him and things went a little far and you are now pregnant, tell them he is willing to stay as the father and you both will support and love this child. good luck!

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Just have faith in your father and hope for the best! He will be upset regardless but in the end he will be very happy to become a grandfather!! Just make sure that you are financially stable though because babies cost a lot of money and they go through diapers and wipes like there is no tomorrow!! But the most important thing is to finish school because that is a very important thing if u want to keep supporting your new baby!! Good Luck!

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Sit down and build up a conversation about parenting and stuff and slowly in the conversation say ' Mom Dad, what would you do if i were pregnant?Would you get mad at me for it?' Then alot of parents would probably say " Well, yeah. Why?" then u could probably say " Well, Mom Dad, i am

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they would definately feel bad and being angry about it they would tell u to marry the guy.plzzzzzzzz then u had to say yes

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tell eachothers parents worked for me... parents dont tend to freek so bad on the other but may kill u

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All I can say is to tell your boyfriend if he does'nt already know and when you tell your parents start out with good things and then ask how you can get help with your pregnancy. Good luck and keep your head up

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get your mom a mug or shirt that says somthing like "Proud Nana" and when she faints make shure she doesnt hurt herself

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tell your mum frist, then sit down together and tell ur dad

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just take resposiblity for your own actions and be honest.

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you say "momma... im prego!!!!"

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Leave the test somewhere really obvious and obnoxious,like a coffee cup, a dashboard, their pillow. Then apply to an MTV show, so you can get paid and glorified for your bad decisions:)

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just say so

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My cousin made a gorgeous cake with their favorite frosting for each of them. Just a mini, nothing huge since there were two. She put "Mom/Dad, I'm carrying your grandchild" on the cakes and left them in their room, one on each pillow in a cute little box. They were mad, but they were softened a bit by their favorite cakes. That's how I told my parents I bought a snake. Lol.

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I would just tell them, because chances are they will be more mad because you tried to hide it from them.

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