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I'm a guy that does not have much luck with girls. i don't know if its my looks, attitude, etc. if someone could give advice or help thanks

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johnn566. Do your thing, and stop "looking" for love. Don't focus all your energy on looking, but focus all your energy on doing things that define you. The right girl is out there, trust me.
What are things that you enjoy doing? Do you like to play basketball? If so, spend time at the court playing. Do you skate? If so, spend time there skating.
What I'm saying is, you're trying too hard. (from the sounds of it). Just be yourself. Do things that you love. And somewhere in the process, you will find her.

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i will try tht. my main thing is music. its just all the girls ive had before just go behind my back and cheat on me. i believe u hve to treat a girl like a sweetheart but everytime i get lied to or cheated on. i just dnt get it i guess lol
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Well, those girls obviously don't know what they lost. It's their loss sweetie, and obviously weren't meant for you.
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thank u... ur the first person to actually really say tht to me
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No problem sweetie. Keep being yourself. I'm sure you're an amazing person. Keep being THAT person. Someday a girl will see it, and THAT girl, is the one for you!
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thank u.. first time i smiled probably all day lol
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My pleasure :)
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yay lol :)
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Nothing is wrong with your looks. Women like confident men so maybe that's what you lack? Also, I totally agree with Cjkenkel.

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thats the thing though i am very confident ill go up to a girl and strike a conversation with them real quick. even if its just small talk. but they always either give me a weird and dirty look or just ignore me and walk away. i dnt get it lol
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If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
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i am 19. ik i am young lol. and i apologize for tht lol
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No need to apologize and yes you are young. Enjoy your life, don't be in a rush to "find" someone. Don't settle for any girl either.
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yes mamm lol. i just like having someone by myside because they keep me out of trouble and from me doin stupid stuff lol.
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Yeah but its not enough to just have someone there, they'll take advantage of your vulnerability. You want someone who will be there unconditionally and wholeheartedly. Haha I should take my own advice!
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lol. i have been taken advantage of alot. i guess its just the fear of being hurt. ive been cheated on so many times and lied to
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Yes, because you like the idea of having a girlfriend. You don't want to be alone but you deserve better. You really should establish a solid friendship with a female before making her your girlfriend. Those are the best relationships.
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i did do that actually. the last girl i was with we knew eachother for 4 years as friends and then we went out. things were going good for 2 years and then idk it just fell apart
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johnn566, it is almost 1am where I am so off to sleep for me. STOP looking for love because you have been looking in all the wrong places...honestly, just stop looking. I wish you well my friend.
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okay
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Just be yourself I know you've probably heard this before but, you'll find her one day. just keep your chin up.

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thank u
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Dude, Trust me i have this same problem because im fat. and i want to be honest. Girl these days want a guy thats sexy with abs and is nice and funny. Simple as that people like us just need to get over it. Im sorry that the world has come to this but its the truth.

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finally somebody agrees with that lol. all they care about anymore is abs lmao. i appreciate guy
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No problem if you ask anybody in real life there just gonna say No that's not it but truthfully they are just trying to be nice. It bugs the crap out of me.
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i agree
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So not true! I've been attracted to big, skinny, short and tall guys. In the end they've all been jerks lol
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ahh....I really do not want to say this But Hot girls go for hot guys. Cute girls go for cute or hot guys and ugly girls go for ugly guys. If a ugly person tries to go with a hot girl they usualy end up dissopointed. thats how it works.. i know thats been my whole life...
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its just a matter of finding the right one
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ok why didnt my comment show... What i said was bassicly hot guys go for hot girls and ugly guys go for ugly girls. and if a hot guy trys to go with a hot girl it ends up bad like her calling him hideous and just want to punch them in there face.
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Funny you should say that, someone once told me that "you attract what you are." But everyone's perception of what's "hot" isn't the same.
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That may be true but it's not so different that would make a gorgeous girl go out with a fat guy. You never see a Gorgeous women going out with a ugly guy do you? and by ugly i mean with like frickles and nerdy glasses and has a smirk not some guy that just has a ugly hairdo.
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Well, living in Southern California I see all kinds of couples. Very entertaining.
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I can almost guarentee that you MIGHT on a lucky day find a Hot girl going out with a ugly guy but that's probbaly because she feels bad for him or he's dieing so she can get a better rep because she was with a dying guy..The world is cruel.
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That's what you're missing, what you may consider "hot" may or may not be everyone's idea. For example, a few of my friends think Robert Pattison is hot while I think he is just crazy looking.
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