johnn566. Do your thing, and stop "looking" for love. Don't focus all your energy on looking, but focus all your energy on doing things that define you. The right girl is out there, trust me. What are things that you enjoy doing? Do you like to play basketball? If so, spend time at the court playing. Do you skate? If so, spend time there skating. What I'm saying is, you're trying too hard. (from the sounds of it). Just be yourself. Do things that you love. And somewhere in the process, you will find her.
Dude, Trust me i have this same problem because im fat. and i want to be honest. Girl these days want a guy thats sexy with abs and is nice and funny. Simple as that people like us just need to get over it. Im sorry that the world has come to this but its the truth.