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Phlorence_602

Is this good for a friendship ?

When you're talking to a friend, you always talk and then you decide to take a break for a while and not talk, is it healthy for the friendship?

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For a friendship ? Sure it is ! You'll just have more to talk about when you talk again ! It's good to take a break now and then ! I have friends all over the States and we don't talk everyday but when we do , we have a lot to talk about ! Just don't wait too long or they'll think you don't like them anymore .

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not exactly. usually you guys start drifting apart. :(

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Sure. It gives you time to think about stuff. Reassess your priorities and see things for what they really are with an "outside the box" perspective. That is if you're willing to do all of that with that time or linger again on the thought of missing them/him/her and being selfish? Which just eats up your time and accomplishes NOTHING.

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Morning my lovely :)
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Morning love.. how was sleep? just had breakfast at work. Bunch of newbies on this site. lots of g@y one's too complaining about how they're sitting alone during break time. reminds me of how irritating school was.
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sounds fine

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Yes. It is good for a friendship, in 6th grade I stopped talking to my best friend because he got mad at me and then his class won the softball game (6th grade was boring) then the next year I gave him what he wanted, $20 (yeah I wasn't smart and betted him $20 I would win) and then were still best friends now, this may not be exactly what you're talking about, but I'm sure it's a good thing to take a break every once in a while to stop and smell the roses. I wish you good luck with your friendships, Phlorence!

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Yea sure, everything is Normal, when you want talk & have topic for talk you're talking & while taking break, sounds completely normal, nothing special don't take your attention on it, It's Cool :)

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Since everyone else is saying yes I'll say no.

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thatoneguy97
Of course.
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Good job !
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I still don't understand why you guys do that to Phlorence she is a sweet girl.
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They just tease her ! You haven't seen her tear them apart yet ! She's been real chill lately !
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There is no such thing as an uncomfortable silence
among friends!

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True. That's how you know they are a true friend. No feeling nervous, like you have to fill the silence. Too much pressure for me.
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It usually isn't the best thing to do the longer you guys may go with out talking a beautiful friendship may start to fade away hold on to the friendship that you have and don't let it go.

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That's a good friendship. Long as you're always there for the other

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Good evening Josh !
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Heya Lizzy! How was today?
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It was great nice and relaxing and hey can you tell what my pic is of ? and how about you ?
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Someone kneeling at the edge of water, with a lamp, with some kind of structure in the background I think
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And not bad, planned out a trip to Wisconsin to hang with my aunt, uncle and cousins
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That's what's happening to me right now.
I think it's good as long as it's not causing u pain and disappointment.

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I would say so. It makes the both of you realize how close you really are when your not able to talk for awhile. I moved four hours away from my best friends and I we won't talk for weeks at a time, but then when I call, it's like we've been talking everyday! It gives us time for things to happen that we can talk about and well stay on the phone for hours. After that we'll go another couple weeks without talking. One big cycle if I do say so. But I think it's healthy.

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