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my best friend is dating my crush

my best friend is dating my crush. but no hard feelings. and nobody knows I like him. I'm happy for her...but I'm not for me. how do I get over it? I'm so sad. every time I think about it, I tear up.

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helixaqua

It's just a guy, there are more of us guys that exist on this planet. Move on, there's more important things to worry about in life than a "crush".

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Boo you!!! :D
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Talk to her about it and if she is a real friend she won't make you I through it

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just remember he's not the only fish in the sea

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find someone else

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try to find some kind of activity that can make you forget him

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just chill

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remember tell your self if your a true friend you will not break them up just so you can date him. You will find someone out there for you it just takes time. Don't rush anything it's a two way street and you both have to be ready. But as far as your crush if you talk too him then I would stop because it will only make it worse. There or other guys out here but there is no need to rush.

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I'm sorry but if she knew you liked him, she's not your best friend...Anyway, just give it time....that is what will heal you. Sorry...

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okay I had the same problem but I had dream's about him and just take it slow and just find someone else that's what I did

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If she really likes him, you should be her best friend and let her be with him. There's other guys out there, you'll find one.

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trust me you will find someone much better.that it going to make you happy. god bless

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She is your best friend but she had no clue you had a crush on the boy she is dating? At first, I had a suggestion from "life experience" however, since I don't think you will be thrilled being around them when they are together, either sit down and talk with her or meet someone else. You are young and have all the time in the world. Good luck!

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Teen boys are like busses: a new one comes along every 20 minutes or so.
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Keep your head up & a smile on your face. A boy that wants to date you will come along soon enough.

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