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"Mom, Dad, I have a boyfriend."

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Just do it!
Honesty is the best way to go!

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don't wait...tell them right away...they will be angry if they find out from someone else and depending on your age be prepared for some tough new rules...but that's life and someday if you become a parent you will understand why :)

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im just very uncomfortable
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you will have to find the bravery to tell them at some point and if your boyfriend is a good clean kid then they may be reasonable about it. If he's not...well then you probably should wait before making a commitment to him and ruining your relationship with your family.
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ok thanx : )
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If they're are strict , bring him over as just a friend. Hopefully they like him, and then you can open up to them and tell them you guys are together

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you just do it at a time your relaxed and your parents aren't stressed out or mad then you clearly flat just say it i have a boyfriend he really makes me happy and respects me and everything about me and i would really like for you to meet him someday or have him come over :) see just like that don't worry everything will work out great

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What i would do is first
tell ur mom how you like this guy or let her here it while u tell ur friend
Later tell ur mom u heard he going to ask u out or let her hear it again
The next day tell her ur going out with him

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Well this is tough. First bring up the conversation and ask them if you're allow to date. If you are then that's good. If your not say.. Well I have a boyfriend and you can meet him! don't lie to them though

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boondox4l

Mom me and this boy just hooked up and it kinda scared me to tell you but now i am so..........................

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dont say hooked up
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In all honesty, there are some things that you can keep to yourself. If this is just a little, random boyfriend that you're probably going to break up with in about a week or two, then don't worry your parents with the subject. Just don't tell them. If it's a more serious thing, then tell them in a serious fashion. I don't know how old you are, but if it's a serious relationship, then they should treat it as such as well.

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Say, "Mom...Dad.. I need to be honest with you...I...I have a boyfriend and I love him very much... Please don't get mad..."

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You don't have to. Have him over for studying, movies, just hanging out. Your parents will figure it out for themselves. They really aren't 'dumb' you know. This is also a good way for you two to get to know each other. Hangin' out.

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First of all, how old are you?

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If I was you, I would just tell them because if the find out you have a boyfriend they are gunna be really anger at you. I always hind my boyfriends from my parents and when they found out I got really in-trouble. So just tell them

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rshackleford

At your age it'll be over in a week, don't worry about it.

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Just tell them and soon because parents do find out quick but once they know they wont tell you until you tell them and they will be upset :/

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salhakhan

Over 14? its all good, tell the one closer to you, probably Mom. Under 14?!?! Still tell you Mom, and that will be for your own good.....

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just tell them you have an boyfriend

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u are right
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thanks
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tell them u have someone special in your life and then tell them the truth that u love someone

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ur right too
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