If you "like" her as a choice your Father made for his new wife, that's fine. If you "like" her as in "attracted" to her like you would a girlfriend.....IGNORE those feelings, and I feel pretty sure they will pass. It's pretty much like having a crush on a teacher. Whatever you do, don't act on those feelings. She is taken, and not just by anybody, she is taken by your FATHER. Focus that kind of attention on other things,.....her not being one of them.
Some of the things that you can do if you like your step mom include, helping her out with the house chores, buying her special gifts for appreciating moms and going out with her for shopping. You can also buy her cards with appreciation messages.
If you're crushing on her, I wouldn't pursue those feelings. That could put an awful barrier between you and your father and also make her uncomfortable. If you like her just as a parental figure, then that's fine and you should spend time with her.
I would simply say i love you she is family and she is taken so i would find someone my own age and that is single or close to my age or someone in general that makes me happy that is more in importantly single its also a good thing you like your step mom as a person shes your step mom and its better to like someone then to go threw life living with a dislike and feeling like you cant talk or work anything out with someone and its good to remain a good relationship with your peers and parents and step parents
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Last edited at 5:21PM on 3/22/2013
You must keep yourself busy and not act on your temporary attraction. There are taboos on this stuff. This woman is close to you while your hormones are raging. The combination of these two conditions will damage your relationships if you speak or act on your infatuation.