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what do i do if i like my step mom?

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If you "like" her as a choice your Father made for his new wife, that's fine. If you "like" her as in "attracted" to her like you would a girlfriend.....IGNORE those feelings, and I feel pretty sure they will pass. It's pretty much like having a crush on a teacher. Whatever you do, don't act on those feelings. She is taken, and not just by anybody, she is taken by your FATHER. Focus that kind of attention on other things,.....her not being one of them.

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i tryed but shes always doing nice things for me. i cant help myself when i see her
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You CAN help yourself.
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You can't help yourself??? Really???? Yes you can. You don't WANT to help yourself. She is nice to you because she considers you a SON. Nothing more.
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or she i just tell her how i feel and see what she tells me
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Bad idea yolo... Keep it to yourself or you will make EVERYONE in the house incredibly uncomfortable.
Please understand that her feelings for you are not reciprocated. I am sure she likes you as a "son" but nothing more.
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ya.. your right i will just keep it to myself :(
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Do NOT tell her how you feel. This will pass. You will be living with this woman as your MOTHER, hopefully for life. How awkward would that be as you grow and mature?
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ok thanks for the help
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Good luck yolo.
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All the best to you. I'm certain when you least expect it, you will meet a girl meant for you. Until then, hang in there.
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Some of the things that you can do if you like your step mom include, helping her out with the house chores, buying her special gifts for appreciating moms and going out with her for shopping. You can also buy her cards with appreciation messages.

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Like or like like O.O

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like like
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Say u love her
is the most simple and direct way!

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Isnt it a good thing to like her? Better than her being a witch.
If you LIKE her.... forget it. I think she is already taken and she doesnt like you that way.

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It is natural for a boy to go through a "crush" on his mother/mother figure phase. Dont worry it will pass.

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Sounds like a sit com to me.

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find another girl (or boy) that you are morr compatable with

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i tryed to but shes nice to me
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Do you have a crush on everyone that is nice to you?? That is just weird.
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Exactly, Neanderthal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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How old are you? Did I miss that?

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If you're crushing on her, I wouldn't pursue those feelings. That could put an awful barrier between you and your father and also make her uncomfortable. If you like her just as a parental figure, then that's fine and you should spend time with her.

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I would simply say i love you she is family and she is taken so i would find someone my own age and that is single or close to my age or someone in general that makes me happy that is more in importantly single its also a good thing you like your step mom as a person shes your step mom and its better to like someone then to go threw life living with a dislike and feeling like you cant talk or work anything out with someone and its good to remain a good relationship with your peers and parents and step parents

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Tell her how you feel. She can then help you get through those feelings.

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Ignore those feelings, Is she even your age?
Think of her as your mom, try to change that feeling u have, I know it's hard but you WILL.

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First of all how old are you and how old is she? tell me this and I will help you out! (:

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You must keep yourself busy and not act on your temporary attraction. There are taboos on this stuff. This woman is close to you while your hormones are raging. The combination of these two conditions will damage your relationships if you speak or act on your infatuation.

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