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Is it friendship or love ?

last year on 18th Feb i meet her in Facebook. we can share every think, then we r exchange our mail Id & we talk in G'Talk. she asked me that i have G talk application or not, then i said yes. then we r talk in G talk in several times.. Still we r talk. few months ago she gave me her Number + Her residential address. last year 18th Dec, on her Birth day, I sent him Lots of Gifts like ( cards, engrave Mug"her Pic" ) when she got those gifts.. she told me that its Very Beautiful & All. now we r talk in phone in every day. some time we are talk in 1 to 2 hours. but i don't think so that she love me or something.. because she said me that she's not ready for love. she is just 22 years old Girl. i just don't understand what to do now. because i love her. some times i saw in G talk that she is offline mode, but still she chatting with me. when i ask her that y u r offline, she told me that if i came to online then my friends Disturbing me.
Now please tell me why she doing this with me???
Is she love me or its just a Friendship or some ting else. we never met Before. But we are plan to meet some day.
Is she love me or Not. if no then y she doing this things.

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If you have "met her" online, and even if you "talk on the phone" everyday, or every hour, that still does not tell you that she is who she says she is. Just because you have seen a picture does NOT mean that is who she is. For you own sake, please find somebody you actually can see F2F and not online. Do you know what her age is? For certain? If not, allow me to warn you. I don't know what the content of your email(s), phone calls, text(s) is, but if she isn't "legal age" you could be bringing yourself a world of trouble. (regardless of how old she SAYS she is) I am not trying to be mean, nor negative. Just being real and speaking my opinion, which is what you have asked us for. Good Luck and please be careful.

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tattoogirl
Awesome advice!! CC, as usual!! :)
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thanks tatt! How are you?
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tattoogirl
I'm good! Getting ready for work. :-(
How are you?
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such relationships don't work. time to dump her and move on to someone you are able to see. so sorry, ol' man time will help you forget about her.

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she is wanting to remain a friend right now but hopefully or sooner or later down the road be in a relationship and to be able to say she loves you she just not ready for a relationship or love right now but from everything you said we know she likes you and we know she does hope to develop something serious in the near future but until then i would remain as a friend and be there for her and keep talking to her trust me if you love her at all or really do alot you will accept and wait for your better half to feel the same way or wait until your better half is ready to get serious but if you wanna keep what you got with her the best thing to do is keep communicating and being there by that shes learning how to love knowing your always there for her no matter what and you respect her not as a person but her decisions and base her love on the actions you show and i feel everything will work out in the end especially once you guys see each other and i don't blame her for going offline meaning she rather talk to you then have over a millions of people or family actually messaging her when she really wants to keep interacting to you mostly its just mean she loves talking to you and rather talk to you then others.

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thanks for your Comment .. I thing ur right
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You are in what we call "the friend zone." This is where you want to be more than friends with someone, but the other person is content being just friends.

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