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I had my husband's Ipad and I opened up his email & saw some emails that he had sent from his phone that girls had sent him.

They were dated 2011 (when we were together) but the pictures were from before that cuz of the time stamp on them. It was a couple different girls that I am sure he met online before we were dating. Naked and icky pictures. So why on earth did he have the need to keep them? I was just devastated. Should I be worried?

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It appears many people have some degree of secrecy. If you look hard enough you will find something. You could question it but if it's two years ago it's in the past. Then there's the reason why you are looking through his stuff. If you don't trust him no explanation or apology will ever be enough. You need to decide if it's worth the stress.

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Hi Bubb, I just talked to you about my wisdom teeth. New identity = fewer deletes I hope.
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Oh oh oh ! Be good .. Ok? ; ))
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FunnyLittleFrog

He probably just forgot they were on the phone. That is icky though.

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My husband is the most forgetful person in the world. Don't read into it. What I'm curious about it you looking in his stuff "accidentally", if you don't trust him you should not be with him. I would come clean with your discovery and talk to him. Sounds like you both have things to discuss.

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If they are from two years back, then it is most likely that he forgot them. That is the only logical conclusion. There is no way he would keep something like that in his phone when he knows you can stumble upon it.

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oarkergreatdane

Stop going through his mail.

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Hi old friend, I've had to change my name due to non-stop deletes. I need to get back to work before the youths-of-today mutiny.
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When your married nothing is off limits. If u don't want your spouse reading your mail then u have something to hide.
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Dr pero, when your married, you need to trust. My husband is a cardiac surgeon and I have no doubt women have hit on him. But, and I mean a big BUT, I trust my husband. He comes home every night with a huge smile on his face, just happy to be home. I've never had a reason to not trust, nor do I sneak through his emails.
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Idk why he would keep them but something's not right to still have them in my opinion

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get a new one

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