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It this girl in my history class who i think likes me. But im scared of being rejected because we are in the same class and i gotta face her

its this girl in my college class who i think likes me because i seen her a couple of time look at me while my head was turned and when i look back she turns her head, and this week i was waiting for a friend to come out the bathroom and while waiting she was with her friend and she was looking straight at me then she says to me your michael right and i say yes then she says your in my class right and i said yea. like i wanna talk to her and see if she likes me but i dont wanna get rejected and plus we are in the same class so i dont wanna feel uncomfortable. DO you think she likes me? And how can i approach her, because she is always with her friend and we all know females can influence the decision of her friend? And if i get rejected we are in the same class so i know its going to be uncomfortable.

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Try starting out with a casual conversation to get to know each other first and that will knock out some of the uneasiness and awkwardness.

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Yeah im a girl and i rejected boys before so what have fun if you like her it doesnt matter what she feel its what you feel

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It's what I would do if I liked a guy. Good luck, dude.

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Ask her to coffee. No risk that way.

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You don't have any problems starting a conversation with a strange guy you don't know because it's just a conversation with no hidden agenda. Start a conversation with her. Any kind. Tell her the other day when you saw her looking at you, you realized when you got home that you had food stuck in your teeth. Jokingly tell her something like, "Thanks for letting me know I had a piece of food stuck in my teeth." Something like that anyway.

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Look man. You gotta man up, trust me dude I've been through this plenty of times. But If you want the girl then ask for her number or something first no need to be scared. She's a normal person just like you and me, So all I can say is man up. But good luck with everything dude. Just remember she's just a girl...

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I haven't been in a lot of relationships and i'm only 15 so i'm DEFINITELY not the best at this but, keep the conversation going next time she talks to you, then say either "Here's my number, text me." Be assertive, or, "Do you want to go to lunch with me today?". Simple. Even if you get rejected in the end, time will pass and eventually you'll forget and wont care.

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