You find love by being an attractive person, portraying confidence and also treating others with kindness. You need to also be nice to other people and feel good about yourself. Find out more tips at http://thegoodlife.org/howto/How_to_Find_Love.
You don't find it, it finds you. Don't look so hard. Be patient and date people who meet your standards. I met my wife shortly after declaring I hated women and was never going to get married. I met her a few months later and now we have been married over 7 years with two wonderful children.