9 months ago
Last edited at 4:19AM on 3/23/2013
I believe we have choices in every aspect of our lives, so, yes. Love is a choice we make. We have many choices when it comes to love. Will I be open to the idea of love? Will I take a chance on the other person? Will I fully commit? Will I trust? Will I forgive? The list goes on - so many choices concerning love.
Love is a gift given to those who follow Gods path but its not a choice. Turn it down isn't his path. And acting wrongly on it isn't following that path. You don't choose to Love, just the actions you do with it. I thought I was gay and I'm glad that I didn't do anything when I went through that phase cause it would have ruined my life.
Love is a choice. Attraction isn't. Most comments here have confused the two. *** You can be attracted to someone... but choose not to love them when you learn that person is abusive, an addict, or otherwise dysfunctional.