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Is love a choice we make?

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helixaqua

It's a natural "feeling" that happens, whether its for a person or a fine cigar, but you have a choice to act on the feelings if its the right time for you.

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bigred....this isn't a political question!!!! You alright? o.O
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GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD MORNING!!!! :D hehe
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good morning
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helixaqua
Morning everyone!!! :)
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hOW ARE YA?:)
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I have many interests. Read my bio.
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Yeah, you can direct it.

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Seriously3

I believe we have choices in every aspect of our lives, so, yes. Love is a choice we make. We have many choices when it comes to love. Will I be open to the idea of love? Will I take a chance on the other person? Will I fully commit? Will I trust? Will I forgive? The list goes on - so many choices concerning love.

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Well said and so true.
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Thanks, hippy. How are you today?
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I rolled out of bed about 30 minutes ago. I'm on my first cup of coffee and starting to wake up.
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Lol, how many cups does it take?
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Usually two 16 ouncers, then I'm ready to go. How are you doing today?
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Last week, one of my friends said she was on her fourth cup and asked how many cups I needed to wake up. When I told her I don't drink coffee, she asked, "How do you wake up?" Lol
I was a little down this morning, but after reading questions and answers, I'm feeling better! Thanks for asking. :)
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Glad you're feeling better. I drink a lot of coffee throughout the day, probably too much.
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Ah, we all have our vices. I'm thinking coffee isn't so bad!
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Yeah

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oarkergreatdane

Not for me! It hit me smack between the eyes! Married 28 years.

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Yep.... it didn't even give us time to duck!!!!!!! Not fair! lol
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Worked for us!!
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Yeah, us too..... Met and married 6 months later and been married for 21 years.
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No, it just happens, that's why it's hard to forget someone u love and can't move on easily.

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No. You can't make yourself get that butterfly feeling, or excited emotions feeling. You know what I'm talking about.

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That is not love. As you grow older you will know the difference.
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FunnyLittleFrog

You can't really choose to love someone.

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Love is a gift given to those who follow Gods path but its not a choice. Turn it down isn't his path. And acting wrongly on it isn't following that path. You don't choose to Love, just the actions you do with it. I thought I was gay and I'm glad that I didn't do anything when I went through that phase cause it would have ruined my life.

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Love is a choice.
Attraction isn't.
Most comments here have confused the two.
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You can be attracted to someone... but choose not to love them when you learn that person is abusive, an addict, or otherwise dysfunctional.

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It's a natural happening. You can control your mind to an extent. However, your heart and feelings are different. Otherwise I don't think so many women would stay with the classless scumbags they do.

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Sometimes.

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