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Which comes first, between your 'job' and your 'spouse'?

According to your opinion, what is more important to you in terms of priority, between 'your job' and 'your spouse'?

Is your spouse the first priority? or Is your job the first priority?

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oarkergreatdane

Spouse. Next question.

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Good morning Candy! still getting better?
again, a strait to the point answer! I agree.
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Hi Julie! Feeling good right now! One day at a time!
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Thank you. Good comment.
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Nice answer!!
Glad to hear you feeling ok today.:-).
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Hi Witte! 8)
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Your spouse

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Yes. I agree.
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your job. won't have a spouse if you don't have the green coming in.

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YOUR SPOUSE!!! What if your spouse wanted you to come home early but you decided to stay late. And one of you guys die. Family always comes first

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Thank you. Good comment. I agree with you.
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Your welcome :)
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your spouse there is more jobs

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A big yes to that. Thank you
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Agree.. =)
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Always spouse and family.

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Yes, I agree with you
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Your Spouse! unless of course he doesn't have a job! (kidding) (kind of) lol

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Oh Yes.
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Wife! You make it sound like a question. I'd rather be a slave then not have my wife.

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Very helpful comment. Thank you
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Your spouse OF COURSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You shouldn't have to think twice about it!!

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Thank you:)
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Family before anything so I think my spouse

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Spouse first... family always comes first.. than all will take care of its self.. =)

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Exactly. I agree with you.
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Thank you.. =)
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Ya i think so as-well.. =)
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The correct answer would be spouse of course, unfortunately, for many, this does not hold true. Career and other things come first, leading to a broken relationship where partners feel second best. People should always come first.

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yep.. sometimes people just need to know whats more important.. there prioratys are messed up..
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Excuse me I just sneezed...)
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Morning Bubbli! Absolutely agree!!!:-).
How're things?
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Hi guys!
Anybody got a tissue for J? ; )
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Here you go J.. here's a tissue..=)
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Thank you Shain, I'm not sneezing anymore but I could still use it...(
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Thats good.. =) heres another one for good meashure lol .. =)
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J, Just sent a box! Durn notifications!:-(.
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hmm ... what kind of notifications!
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Thank you, surprisingly this was a difficult question, it just hit me in a bad way...
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Thats allright..=)
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@Shaina, system messing up some for last few days; answers/comments delayed and notifications that someone has done so not always showing...:-).
@ j, hang in there, as I said.. It will come!!:-).
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Ha? Im comfused lol..
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Good. Family first.
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Definitely your spouse. It shouldn't be a question.

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100% Spouse, what good is a career and success if it's at the cost of your loved ones?
That career and the people you work with/for are not going to be sitting there holding your hand and smoothing your brow when you get sick, and won't laugh and hug you when life is good!:-)

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Beautiful answer!
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Thank you.:-).
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It's Saturday morning, I just woke up a little while ago, and as I reach my hand to the other side of the bed I find that it is empty, at this time for me there is no spouse, I would give my job and everything that I have to fall in love one last time, and to have a woman to hold in my arms, someone to protect, someone that would tell me I was her hero, a reason to live, that's my answer...

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J, your time will come!!!:-).
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Come on say it like you believe it!:-). I do!:-)
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Your answer is beautifull by the way, you made me raid the tissue box....
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Good.
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That was absolutely the sweetest answer. I know what you mean.
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I lost my husband to cancer. A woman's version of what you described hits me quite often as well. That's why I said that I knew what you meant. I hope you find love again. Good luck to you.
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Thank you I will, reunited with my jr high sweetheart, my 1st love, but her relationship with alcohol was unbearable for me, I never thought I would be here now but I can't be with her, it's hard to start over, it wasn't the plan :~(
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Your spouse..

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Moonbeams.:-)
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Spouse

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spouse. ALWAYS.

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Priorities in life:
1. GOD
2. Your spouse
3. Your children
4. Your job
5. Recreation

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That is so true!
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That's a difficult question. Of course your spouse should come first, but if you are talking as the man in the family, then I would have to say that I believe a man should take care of his responsibilities first, that means keeping a job, keeping food on the table, keeping bills paid., etc. if it comes down to making your spouse happy or keeping the bills paid, then I would say to concentrate first on making sure you have a roof over your head then working on your relationship.

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Excellent analysis. I agree. Thank you so much.
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