Should I forgive my dad?
I'm 19 years old and in college two states away from home. My parents got divorced 5 years ago and my "father" said he wanted nothing to do with me and my two other siblings(One older brother, one younger sister). I was a freshman in high school when this happened. I am so close with my mom and she has been a mother and a father to me. I love her with all my heart and give her credit for comforting me and my siblings through this whole thing. He cares more about woman than anything. He would come once or twice every two months to visit us and he did attend my graduation senior year. Its not March of 2013 and I have not heard from him since August of 2012. He is my dad and I have always wanted things to work but I feel like giving up. My older brother is completely done with him and I'm on the verge of being done too. He also texted me in December on my birthday at 6pm. Should I just be the adult and drop the relationship all together or is he worth at least something?