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How do I deal with bullying ..?

The kids at school call me blackie chan because im mixed .. its an everyday problem .

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just ignore the lill kids.

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thatoneguy97
No John.
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Being the bigger person isn't walking away, it's standing up for your pride and rights, only in a assertive way
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Tell an adult, ASAP!

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Tell someone, like a teacher or principal. Or ignore it and it should stop.

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Ignore em'..all they want is attention. If this continues on, tell an adult.

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tell them it really bothers you, they might not know its even hurting you. They may just be joking, but if not, then deffinetly tell a parent or guidence counciler. You can tell you want the report to be annonymous, and nobody will know you were the one that "told on them." The bullies will think a bystander reported it, and the teachers will also keep a better eye on them, so it doesnt start again.

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Never tell a bully how you feel
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Well if you tell them, they are gonna do it more, cause they know it gets to you. Never tell them. EVER!
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Best thing to do is not show them attention because bullies are parasites who feed off the pain of others :(

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hi.. :) star
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Honestly fighting won't solve this tell your parents tell an adult and confront them. Don't let these losers take your joy away by getting away with hurting you. Goodness stay strong and talk to someone you can trust to help you over come it.

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Just laugh! That's what my brother did, and they stopped. They are looking for a negative reaction from you, give them a positive one instead :)

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if it happens more than once over a period of time report

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Punch them in the face and get some icecream.

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Ignore it,if that doesn't help stand up for yourself,tell him to stop,and walk away,and if that doesn't work,tell your parents or teachers,they should help with it.

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Ignore then .

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Being the bigger person isn't walking away, it's standing up for your pride and rights, only in a assertive way
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You have to stand up for yourself! For example, if you stood up for yourself in front of everybody, he would be humiliated. Then, he will be afraid to call you names.. Or just get an adult but make sure they do something to change. Also, that loser should feel real low with him self if he calls you blackie chan.

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Ok I know everyone's saying to ignore it. Being the bigger person isn't walking away, it's standing up for your pride and rights, only in a assertive way assertive means( being kind and nice about it) And when you talk to the bully don't act scared. Also don't be mad about it to cause that just causes fights, but being nice will make him/her mad.

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Wow... I might not be so helpful but punch one in the nose to stun him/her then uppercut. After that you should run if there is more than you can take on.

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I'm mixed so tell me about it I KNOW I've been in the same situation. If its a group of kids just show them who's the better person. DONT EVER LET THEM KNOW THAT YOUR FALLING FOR WHAT THEIR CALLING YOU!!!!! If you do than it will make it ok for them to call you more things.SHOW EM WHOS THE BETTER ONE....JUST BE YOOURSELF ......NOTHING BAD WILL EVER COME YOUR WAY!!!! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!! cause remember that you only have 1 LIFE TO LIVE so don't Live it.... worrying about them. :-) JUST BE YOU :-) :-) :-) that's what I do!!! :-)

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Just ignore them and if it keeps happening and they wont stop then stand up for yourself or tell an adult.

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Tell them "I have a lock and your not going to ever find the key"

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personaly it depends on a scale how popular you are, if 0-6 ignore them and walk away quick and gather with other friends, 7-10, tell that person of and they will eventually leave you alone

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violence...it solves all

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