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I was introduced to this girl and she made me feel happy but in the end she kind of ended it and i dont know how to get over it.

This girl was going out with this guy(call him bob) bob pretty much had sex with her a lot and then just left her after a couple weeks. she was depressed and everything and i heard about this through a friend. i didn't like how he treated her so i started talking to her and after a couple weeks of talking all day we hung out. after about a month we hung out one day and at night we watched a movie and she cuddled with me and i kissed her. she didn't push back or anything and she just kept cuddling and kissing. the next day she said she had a great time and wanted to do it soon so i went to work and we didn't txt at all which was kind of weird. later in the night she sent me a 3 page txt pretty much saying that she wish she met me sooner and she has mixed feelings for her ex and that she was sorry for leading me on. i kind of broke down a bit cause i felt used and played but she kept saying after school and all the stress is gone she would want to get together again. Idk if she even liked me and now i just feel like i did something wrong

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To get over her, you need to avoid all the things that will make you remember her. This includes the places you used to go together. However, it is also possible that this girl is afraid that what happened to her previously might occur. You do not have to leave if you still like her but be nice to her and you might win her back.

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You didn't do anything wrong. She sounds like she just had a bit of past to clean up, and she made it sound like she's ready now if you are based on what you're saying. My thought would be to ask her "Are you sure you're ready for this?" and let her answer dictate the relationship.

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You didnt do anything wrong if anything she could of been a virgin when she got with that guy so its gonna be hard to get over someone especially if you shared something very important to you or that special so she may need time to just get over him and to move on and if he hurted her that bad he might again so just be there for her and show her the man her ex couldnt be and the more your there for her as a friend shows alot and she will notice what you have done for her and fall for you

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