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Is it bad to fall in love but do nothing about it? Mainly for reasons of trust issues with past relationships.

mainly to say i have a hard time trusting girls again because honestly i just think there all the same.They lie,steal,cheat,decieve people esp a bf for anything.

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FunnyLittleFrog

The person you have to trust before you can have a good relationship is yourself....you have made bad choices in who to love up to now. You have learn to be a better judge of character before giving your heart away.

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Thats how i feel about men! I havent been in a relationship where a guy hasnt cheated on me. But i guess youre gunna have to try to give people the benifit of the doubt and give people chances. Unless you want to be alone for the rest of your life.

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Derek54

sounds like you hang around the wrong type of women. if you got trust issues, that's something that you've gotta work past. you can go to therapy for it or counseling. also, let your love know how you feel as well. you both can work through this together

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Not all girls are like that:-) you just have to find one you can really trust that's all:-) i know when Guys say stuff. Like that about us girls doesn't help or confidence whAt so ever but good luck

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You know that no one's the same as anyone else - so get over that. Also, there are probably 10 times more women who think the same way about men - so you should be able to find lots of girls to identify with.

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Geeez! I am not like that and I don't know any other women who are. Wondering if this is done silly teen thing.
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His profile doesn't say anything.

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Geeez! Who gave you been hanging around with?!? Perhaps you should just wait till you mature.

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you can't bring your past relationships into the future ones you have to let it go and trust that the new person is honest. if you don't trust them they will pull away from you. you have to work on this inside your self the whole time your in the relationship and it does get easier

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Boy what kind of girls are you dating? If you keep getting the same kind of crappy girlfriend, then you may have to look at why YOU keep picking the same type of girls. Lying,, cheating, stealing are all traits that any human can have, not just girls. I think your problem is that you need to go fishing in a different pond my friend. And you should jump in with both feet, first, if you get burned, you get burned, but it's better than feeling nothing at all.

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It's not bad... And I think guys are all the same, they cheat with all the girls they can, they lie and drink and get high even when their partner is there, so sad. How does that feel?

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