The safest way is medically induced abortion if you are under 3 months. Wether you should have one is your decision and more importantly the moms decision. No one can tell you what to due. That part is up to the two of you. If you decide to terminate, or go through and give it up for adoption or decide to raise it yourself make that decision with your head and heart. You will have to live with it for the rest of your life. Good luck in your difficult decision and next time. USE A CONDOM!
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For support in helping decide what to do, call the American Pregnancy Helpline at 1-866-942-6466 or 1-800-848-LOVE (5683) for help. They both have someone to talk to 24 hours a day and will talk to you about terminations, or having the baby, medical care, housing, finances or anything you need. God bless.
You should consider adoption. If you are worried about medical and other financial costs associated with the pregnancy, there are many adoption agencies that will help you choose a family for your baby that will cover all of your expenses. Please think about this, once you make the decision to end your baby's life it cannot be undone, it is something you will live with for the rest of your life and I can almost certainly guarantee you it will be the worst mistake of your life.