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I'm kind of worried about my sister. I don't really know if she's depressed or not and she's a teenager so I mean I guess it's normal to be stressed these days. We moved across the country last June and she's been talking to her best friend over email and they talk ALL the time. And I ask her what they talk about and she doesn't tell me. So yesterday I somehow got a chance to look at the first sentence of two emails and one of them said "I'm mad at you I just told you the truth..." and the other said "...I'm worried about you..." and I don't know who said what but I freaked out because I'm not sure if my sister is ok and I'm just worried. I don't really want to talk to her about it so should I just wait it out because my sister would NEVER commit suicide or anything and her grades are still straight A's.

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I have to ask: is she older or younger than you? I am asking because sometimes older siblings find it hard to talk to younger siblings about their problems because they feel they have to be strong.

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She's older
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Then I'd say that she's probably just going through a rough time, and it will pass. What you can do is be nice to her in little ways. It's gonna seem like nothing, but trust me it means a lot. Offer her food if you're going to get some. If she makes a rude comment, it's because she's stressed. Don't fight over it because she's relying on you as her sister to be a source of friendship (especially if she's having problems with her best friend). Best of luck
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Thank you so much. I'm just going to relax and take your advice although I don't think she's upset because shes in a fight with her best friend.
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Wait nvm my last sentence haha :)
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Okay haha you are quite welcome
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Tell her you are worried and just want to make sure she is doing ok and that you are there if she ever needs someone to talk to

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don't get freaked out over a couple of sentences that you don't know nothing about on what is being talked about,

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Thank you. So should I just kind of relax about everything?
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Lol thank you :)
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Relax a little. She just moved a 'world' away from her BFF. She's still sharing with, and caring about them. Best thing you can do, is let her know you are concerned, and will always be there 'if'' or when she needs to talk to you. Be supportive, not suspicious.

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I wouldnt worry about anything or assume anything i would tell her that your worried and that your always here if she needs someone to talk to i may not be your age or be a women but i have gone threw alot to with my friends and love ones and im always here if you need a shoulder to cry on or as a friend not just a brother being concern about the well being of his sister you could also try getting close to her to know more about whats going on in her life or whats bothering her that always works you could try making a website and add a fake profile of you as a girl and just add her as a friend and just get to know your sister or to just give advice and know whats going on in general just to be sure of things also try spending more time together or making her feel comfortable to come to you just not as a brother but show her you can also be a friend and a trustworthy person to talk to

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