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Phlorence_602

Good personality.
BUT all girls are different

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Unless they are twins...
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:o
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i win by default then :P
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Depends on the girl. We all have different tastes. Suggest you be yourself, but treat girls with respect, and you will find the one for you.

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Self confidence, looks surely help, sense of humor, respect, just to name a few.

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be honest.... some chemistry/looks help too
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Yep, you said it right!!
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Your're right, some chemistry always helps Mona.
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Confidence, protective, loving, caring, romantic.. WONT CHEAT..ya know.. basic stuff. <3

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GIRLS like a rebel, a "bad boy", but WOMEN look for a mature adult who has a good job, an education, a place to live, a car to drive and a good future ahead of him.

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Whatcha got going on in that picture bro? You gotta come have some fun with this 1D being bigger than the Beatles question.
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You're totally right Tony!!!
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NewBud, that's an album cover, Thunder - "Robert Johnson's Tombstone", with the devil dancing on the grave (I don't know the story behind it, but in the song it said something about selling his soul).

Sorry I missed the 1D / Beatles debate, I bet that was a blast! Haha
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Yeah. Robert Johnson supposedly sold his soul at the crossroads. I think the story was the basis for the movie crossroads. You should check it out. It has Ralph Machio in it and is pretty slow and boring, but when they meet Jack Butler things get real good.
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I've seen that, wow Steve Vai was awesome!
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Well what I look for in guys are: Being themselves, like not trying to be cool, not caring if I have makeup or not, acts happy and themselves around me, and someone who is nice to me(like someone I can trust) (: But All Girls Are Different.

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They look for a guy who can make them laugh and care about them. They want someone who will be there to comfort them. They dont want a guy who is clingy and they want someone who is independent but still wants you to cuddle and help them. They don;t want someone who is depressed or pouty because its annoying and it makes us sad. We also want someone who is polite and not stuck on themselves. We like it when guys flirt and when they open the door or let you order your own meals. We like it when guys have a personality that is themselves and not someone different that they are trying to be.
But then again all girls aren't the same. Hope this helped :)

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It helped. thanks :)
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No problem :)
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The size of their wallet.

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wow really?
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Some girls. You gotta find the good ones.
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ik those girls disgust men -.-
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Not all of us Buddah, at least not for me!!
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Its BS though... u don't really love them u fall inlove with what they get you, and what u can get -.-
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I know kookie. I have a good one. She got rewarded with a shiny expensive ring.
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I respect your religion and all but i couldn't do that... live with the thought that the only reason ur wife is married to u is ur money...
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Buddah, it's strange isn't it? When we are young the money thing doesn't matter at all, heck I went years without a nice ring, it just didn't matter. I knew we didn't have the money and it wasn't important, now my husband showers me with jewelry just because he loves to see the look on my face, I've got a great one too!!!
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Im only 13.... lol i dont have a religion as far as i know... BUT i respect all religions.... except for the terrorist... if that is even a religion... :/
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I thought we were talking about what girls like in a guy?
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we were.... then i was thinking about ur religion and then i kinda wondered off... lol
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Kody, what do you mean by my religion? I'm confused o.O
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Budah? i think it is... isnt that ur religion...? o.O im confused also..
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@Kody, huh, no, lol that's what I call NewBuddaha for shorter name to type in. Sorry, I thought you knew.
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Honesty,confidence,loyalty,protection and good family values.. Great sense of humor is important too.. After 10yrs of marriage with my wife we still make each other laugh..Thats one of my rules of life( live,love and laugh). If your a good person just be yourself and she will decide if that's what she is looking for. God bless!

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Wow, I'm impressed, your wife is a lucky lady!!!
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Thank you and I am the lucky one to have her! And judging by your profile you sound like a catch yourself! Just saying!! I mean no disrespect..
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None taken, thank you, that was very nice, actually it made me smile, thanks!
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Anytime you see me chatting I am at work all night and you can feel free to chat with me. We can smile together. ( again no disrespect)
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Awesome, I'll follow you, so I can keep up with you.
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Sweet. I have nothing but time. I am self employed.security.. I love to talk
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Ha, yeah me too, I'm guessing you live on the west coast? It's 12:33 here, and 5am comes really early, I'll catch up with you tomorrow, that's for the chat!!
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East coast.. Up state New York. Binghamton.. Chat with you soon( when ever you want)
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Wow, you're like me, keeping late hours. There just doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day to get everything done. I'm feeling it this week, can't wait for the weekend to catch up in some much needed rest.
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Yes indeed!!! Hope you get the rest you need. Enjoy your day my female friend.
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fritzmerde

Most chicks love a big long hard wallet. The bigger, fatter the better. That's all I got, I've always had to rent dates, borrow wives, sad, just really sad

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Wow, that's all I got, wow! Where the heck you looking?
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In my bed
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Well, there ya have it!! O.O
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hahahahahahahahahahahaha, I can't breathe!!
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Someone who can make them laugh and care about them and if they r in troubel will drop everything to help or cheer them up. Will never leave their side. And i was gonna put something else but now o forget. Crap. I will put it in comments if i remwmber

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Personality, Humor, Looks

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sense of humor, responsibility,motivation, etc.. for different girls,things may different.

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Someone who's trust worthy, hard worker, has to be able to carry on a good conversation, quick witted, likes adventure, the biggest of all is to love back the way they are loved unconditional. Stay in the bad times as well as the good.

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the good answer
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Thanks Mona!!
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A nice cologne...I love the smell of 401K on a man ;)

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Very nice!!
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haha....I didn't think anyone would notice this....forgot about you ;)
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Gotta admit sometimes I'm slow, but not that slow, lol
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Ahhhh, the old retirement cologne.
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Haha outstanding!
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Self confidence, but not in an arrogant way. Someone who puts you first. A good sense of humor. Kindness. Thoughtfulness. Dependability. Trustworthy. Fun to be with. Romantic. Good looks and hight a plus, but not a deal breaker. Not afraid of hard work.

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It depends on the girl.

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A good heart,caring,loving,supportive,great personality,respectful and has manners and is a total gentlemen

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and can make you laugh, (dual account btw, so girl talking here)
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They look for protection. No girl wants someone who is soft.

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Honestly, personality is everything to me. No one believes me but I don't care about looks, the only thing on the outside I care about is if you have pretty eyes. I love eyes. Eyes and personality are the FIRST thing I notice. And if you can make me laugh then I'm sold. Not many people can make me laugh so if you are actually funny, not doing stupid things to be funny but just funny in general and can be goofy and weird with me then that's what I like. But all girls are different, and honestly don't use any of these tips because if she doesn't like you for yourself then screw her. I have changed for guys before and you end up hurting yourself in the end so just be yourself and you'll find a girl who loves you for who you are eventually.

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Women/girls have a lot of estrogen so they are more of feelers they are more psychological when it comes to dating so my best guess is they like confidence,some one that's not submissive and actually stands up for himself. But hey what do I know I'm a guy I'm just going off of a scientific perspective. (Which is normally the best route to go and accurate way as well.)

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Good loving caring man.

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if the girl is a bitch n only goes for the looks then screw it, some girls go for the mans personality and attitude..or most..

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personality,looks,attitude,good or bad in protection

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what,s that suppose to mean?
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be faithful to her thats what that means
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sweetness and romantic is the best but remember all girls a different now days

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Treat them they way you would like to be treated. Respect them, care for them,, remember the little things.... with girls it's the little stuff, with guys it's the big stuff... have fun with her, make her laugh, make her feel good about herself... bring out the best in her and she will do the same for you.

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confidence bro they love that

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'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'
girls may choose a guy at first because of his looks, but she will ultimately have to see if she made the right decision when it comes to the personality portion of the relationship.
sure, a hot guy would be perfect eye candy, and would be amazing for a girl to be able to show off to her friends and family, but what's it worth is there is no emotional connection?
all girls want different things in a guy. i personally, do not pay attention to the good looking guys. if he's talking to a friend, then i observe the way that he interacts with that friend, where his attention is, and how he generally acts. a lot of the guys that i do not pay attention to, you can tell that they are not into the conversation that they are having, and you can tell that they are getting annoyed. my next step is to see the way that they interact with my best friend. a i have a 'wing-man.' he talks to potential dates. he notices things and if he thinks that the guy would be worth it, he introduces him to me.
i guess what i am trying to say is that most girls look for different things, but mainly personality and their confidence levels.

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thanks that helps a lot :)
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why are you going on and on?
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really good personality. Don't be a jerk, be a kind and helpful guy. If the girl has a problem assure her your there for her. Most Important would be: Be yourself.

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a good sense of humor, has to be honest and make them feel comfortable and not like there being used just for sex, some girls like a guy who is sensitive and actually shows emotion, it tells them they really care

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Humor is a big part of it.
Humor, romantic, kind, caring, protective, can take care of himself, and knows how to cook lol

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Sense of humor, nice eyes, good smile, nice personality, just make her laugh and she's pretty much yours. But this is what I would look for in a guy, every girl is different.

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The main thing, Being themself

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a guy needs to smell nice and be themselves personal grooming is huge for all girls. just be you and that should be all they need just try to stay away from golddiggers.

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show the girl that you actually care about her. dont use her for sex AND BE HONEST

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girls look for a sensitive sweet honest
loving guy

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someone who will make them feel like they are a princess and someone who could be their best friend

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honesty and trustworthy.

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someone who can make them feel like they're them not who you want them to be just to impress you and don't be shy if you like girl give her a few hints and then find out if she likes you too and then ask her out on a proper date.

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Girls want a guy that can listen to them complain,take them out to eat,spend money on them,help them with their petty drama,look for a guy that they can emotionally control, buy them jewelry and drive nuts until he cheats.

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Most girls look for good personality, not going to cheat, respect, and not a player...it all depends on the girl. Most girls have different things they like in a guy

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someone who WON'T CHEAT, funny ,smart,creative

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people will say personality, but honestly it goes like this: 1 they make you feel good about yourself, 2 polite to friends and family, 3 loyal, 4 similar interests, 5 looks

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i like guys who are protective of me wont cheat and just simply love me but all girls are difrent...

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All girls are different. But Every girl looks for honesty and respect in a relationship. A girl wants to be your princess. Shower her with your love but give her the space she needs. Don't give her too much either because the space you make for her, some other guy might creep right up and take away your princess

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Confidence and charisma. Thats what attracts almost all women at first.

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girls like a guy who is honest, trustworthy, cute: but looks dont always matter, sweet, caring and loving.. :)))

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girls like guys who is honest trustworthy handsome cute but kindness don't matter

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hot guys

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someone who is nice & treats them with respect

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well first you have to get the girl so you have to make her like you. you can kind of flirt with her like you guys can lock eyes then you say she has the most beautiful eyes. then when you get the girl, girls always like someone who snuggles with them and isn't shy. you have to actually go up to her and talk or shell go up to you. you can wrap your arms around her. that makes you seem like you will never let her go. or you can say I love you to her. and then when you think the time is right you guys kiss. the kiss always makes girls happy. but you have to know how to kiss cause girls dont like a guy who cant kiss I mean you are going to be kissing them a lot might as well kiss them right.

good luck

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girls like guys who are romantic, sweet, and forget about bad boys girls may like those types but all girls have feelings for softies

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confidence, nice eyes, sweet, complimenting, trustworthy, muscular, not a total jerk, romantic, a good smile :)

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you you have to be sweet, funny, nice , smart, romantic is the boom, and etc

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