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Cousin filmed a sex tape with his girlfriend without telling her. I told her. Is it right or wrong?

My cousin trusts me, and he showed me a sex tape with his girlfriend. The problem is that she does not know about the tape. He says that he loves her, but he keeps on cheating her with other girls. He also showed me the video and that shows that he betrayed her trust. In order to protect her, I spoke to her anonymously, and I told her about the video. I got the video as evidence, and I showed her clips of it just to prove it. She knew my identity later on because she knows me. I don't want her life to be ruined by my cousin. He is her first boyfriend. I helped her by deleting the video from my cousin's mobile, so that he won't show it to anyone. My cousin now knows that I am the one behind everything, and he blames me for destroying his relationship. He also accused me of being a betrayal. I feel really bad of what I've done. Do you think what I have done is right or wrong? The girl thanks me a lot of what I did to her, and she keeps talking to me till now. Is it right to keep talking to her also? What do you think? My cousin no longer talks to me, and he told me he will take his revenge.

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Who knows what your cousin intended to do with that "tape". You did the correct thing. DO NOT feel bad for doing this.
Honestly, I would end all ties/connections with this cousin of yours. He sounds like trouble, and that isn't something you need.

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I don't believe you have to be too concerned with what your cousin says about you. What matters is that you stood for the right thing and was courageous enough to take the action you took. You can keep talking to her, whether your cousin wants it or not is irrelevant.

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In Oz having something like that on your phone can land you in big trouble (esp if the girl is underage)

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australis
I think that applies for America as well however,weather you are under age or not if it's done without the persons consent they can face legal charges.Hi TieGuy.I've been searching for someone from back home.I'm from Melbourne
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I'm still at home - further south on the smaller island
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Nice.Thank u for responding.By the way in ans to your question what do u call a tie collector the guys were right.Need to get some sleep because at the moment i'm in Europe and it's quite late.good morning and good night
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You did the right thing. Your cousins just mad because he looks like the fool and you look like the hero.

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You did the right thing. I'm sure there will be other girls he can deceive, but at least you saved one of them, by being honest. You shouldn't feel bad at all.

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You are better off without cousin...it would have been something else if not this because he has bad character. Girl appreciates you...nice for her to know all men aren't bad.

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mann tell her everything!! and try to get proff about whats hes doing...ive wouldve done that shitt.. i wouldve kicked his ass if he told me he was cheating on my cuzzin shitt... aha sorry gurll but its the truth ;)

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I agree... You absolutely did the right thing. Your cousin DOESNT love her... he can't. You dont treat someone you love that way. Ever.
I also think that you should just cut all ties with that cousin. You really dont need to be around someone like that. Family or not. I am very glad to know that you have an outstanding moral conscience. That is very admirable of you.
I think it is perfectly fine for you to be talking to this girl... and if your cousin takes out some sort of revenge on you.... Dont be afraid to call the cops on him. He sounds as though he needs to be scared straight in a very bad way.

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Your cousin did a very wrong thing. If he loves her this is not the way to do something. I dont think he actually loves her. You did the right thing. There should be more people like you who have the courage to raise their voice against something like this.

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First... Someone showing relatives videos of them having sex, is, sort of, different. You should propably ask him why he showed it to you.
Maybe it would of been better to just stay out of it, perhaps you want to make sure he knows that you do not want to know about his sexlife.

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You did the right thing.Don't feel bad your cousin is scum and u just helped the poor girl from a lot of future pain.Good for you.

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