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I live with my mom, dad and younger brother. My mom and dad don't get along very well and my dad is always complaining about how little money we have. My mom thinks that my dad is secretly taking money and saving it for himself, and she barely gets any. My mom seems to be scared of my dad and she won't do anything, but I can't just sit here doing nothing. What do I do?

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If I was your Mother, I would get a job. It takes two incomes to make it work these days. My husband is kind of cheap. We've been married 26 years, have 2 kids. We keep our money separate. If I felt he didn't provide enough money, I would go out and get my own.

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You can help your mom out by getting a job and giving her some money so she can support you and your little brother,

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I don't have any money :/ we're going on a trip tomorrow and we barely have any money. Any other ideas?
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Well if your going on a trip then maybe find some places where you can have fun but is also cheap. When you get back maybe find a job so you can help out.
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I'm only 13...
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ohhh idk what to tell u and me too im 13 lol im srry honey. :(
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the best thing to do is to keep a watchful eye on your dad come next paycheck. If he is taking money for himself then you tell your mother you have seen him taking it. after that, you can confront him together if your mother is too nervous and decide what to do as a family from there.

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My dads pay check goes straight to his office, so he's the first one to see it, so that won't work and my dad isn't a very understanding person.
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well thats all ive got.... sorry
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Have a talk with them.

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I've already tried that, and he got up and left the second he realised what I wanted to talk about.
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Wow... Im speechless.
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It's honestly not your problem, your parents are adults and can handle financial issues on their own. If you're of age you could get a job but otherwise, I wouldn't stress out over something you have no control over. Don't try to get in the middle of it.

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My parents don't act like proper adults
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They're still the adults in the household. You can't take these matters upon yourself. It's their obligation to provide for their children up until a certain point. If you feel like they don't do that for you, get a job.
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I'm 13.... I can't get a job
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Your father may not be hiding money, your parents could be legitimately tight on money. The economy isn't exactly great these days and most families struggle.
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I hope I'm not coming off as rude, I'm honestly not trying to be.
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Well, then the money issues shouldn't be something of concern to you. Let your parental take care of it.
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I don't think their's much you can do buddy. I mean that's kinda your dads biz. Does your mom work to? Or just your dad

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No, just my dad
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Then it's gonna be kinda hard to see what he's doing with his money Man. If his checks get to him first. Only thing I can think of bro is try to talk to him or sum
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Are you old enough to get a part time job?

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