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Is really big hips unattractive to guys?

my stomach isn't big but my hips are. will this keep people from really noticing me as someone to date?

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Most guys like hips because it's an indication of baby-bearing ability. We like hips without even knowing why, but it's a million years of evolution urging us to procreate.

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Oh I know why - it's a great handle for...doing stuff.
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Freak! haha
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That's the very same reason I like stiletto heels.
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"... I like the way the line runs up the back of the stocking,
I always liked those kinda high heels too,
No no no don't take 'em off, leave 'em on,
Yeah that's it, little more to the right ..."
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I know that's David Lee Roth but I can't place the song.
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Everybody Wants Some
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Oh yeah.
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Bahaha :)
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It depends on the culture.

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My Black buddies like gals with big hips. A lot.
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Phlorence_602

Every guy is different.

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nope, because you got curves

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I thought that was a good thing?
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Curves are attractive. You have hips=curves. Some girls have hips, others have breasts, and some are sticks. Every girl is made unique in their own way. So I think you will be fine and attractive the way you are. If some guys don't like it, o well...because there will always be the guys that really like it.
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Slim waist and wide hips is deadly combination. If you are like that you are a bomb.

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FunnyLittleFrog

If he really likes you, he will like your hips. Don't need every guy to like you...nothing but trouble.

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i prsonaly dont like it

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Derek54

youre fine! the male human is unconsciously attracted to more well built women because they have a better chance to produce healthy offspring. it all boils down to a thing called 'sexual selection' which is a part of thinking in almost all organisms that help them choose healthy mates to ensure their bloodlines survival. so, not only are males attracted to well structured women such as yourself, they are unknowingly attracted because of the instinctual part of their brain that allows for the correct selection of a healthy mate.

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Correct! A+ and a Gold Star!
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Derek54
:P I studied
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Sociologists have determined that the universal (meaning: among ALL cultures) ideal waist to hip ratio is 2:3. (it is a sign of fertility)

But as Phlorence says, every guy is different. Some prefer slimmer girls while others want a little more curve.

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Star that
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Ummm no

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depends. some guys like the curvy girlies, others like the ruler-shaped ones. me, I'm curvy. I kinda take after my mom... with the hips, not the middle. flat stomach, bigger hips, bigger bust. and yes, I hate it.

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dustee

Curves are great with red shiny lipstick.

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nooooo

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