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How do I get over him . ?

I started talking to this boy about three years ago and we become bestfriends . We have went out about 5 times . Ge cheated twice . I've tried to stop talking to him but it's hard because he was my first love and like my bestfriend . he still has feelings for me he claims but he has a gf . & I still have feelings for him but I told him I would never go wit him again . He argues wit his girlfriend about me because She doesn't like when we talk . When we talk we just joke around & laugh , but my feelings start to come back . it's hard to stop talking to him because I'm not just losing a ex , I'm losing my bestfriend . . please help me .

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You already know that he does not make a good boyfriend...cheated twice. You also know that being friends with him is too hard for you because you want more than that. I would say to be friends with him because you love him so much as a best friend, but your feelings are too strong that you want or will want it both ways. And if you get back together, most likely you will be cheated on once again (not saying it's definite, but most likely). It will just become a vicious cycle...and you will be the one hurt in the end. I think you would be best just to let him be. You will find a better guy...and also a better friend. You will hurt for a while, but you will be able to move on...eventually.

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In order to get over him, you need to cut all communication between you two. Try concentrating on other things rather than thinking about him and socialize with other friends. You need to also do new things or something that interests you most so as to get over these feelings.

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To me I think you should move on there other fish in the sea but I know it's going to be hard too move on but try it.

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Deal with it. He's a horrible friend and ex so stay away.

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well, the best way to deal with is, is to talk to him and straighten everything out with him in private so things can clear up. tell him what you feel and wait for him to tell you whats in his heart and what he wants!!<3

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