No, frankly, I wouldn't. A cheater will always be a cheater, and just because they say they've changed doesn't make it so. It's like the saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." I don't trust a cheater, because I know that if I let them back in, I'll just get hurt.
That's a very difficult question. Sometimes you can but like another poster commented, they would need to work extra hard at earning your trust back, and be willing to do it as long as it takes. If they start acting weird about it again, adios my friend.
forgive, absolutely, I always forgive my enemies and those who wrong me. Allow them to be a substantial part of my life, absolutely not. They had their chance with me, they screwed it up, so they are forgiven by me, and now I'm moving on. I forgive easily, but I never forget, because that just opens you up for more pain.
I would not waste my time, they are not committed to you and have broken your trust and your heart. Often they are just sorry they were caught and will do it again. If one truly loves and cares for someone then they are the only one they need, to violate that clearly says they are not ready for a serious relationship.
No ma'am. To me that's the one thing I cannot forgive. On top of that I can't help but think that if I take them back, they will just keep taking advantage of my good nature and continue to cheat. Also they will also lose respect for you if you take them back. They'll think your stupid enough to forgive them.
You cant forgive someone elses fakeness so no dont forgive the one who wouldn't even forgive you if you did that same and you should never forgive a cheater they should know what they got and not cheat period
yes and no. it depends on if you gave him a reason to cheat or if he did it just in spite. if you were being distant, then you must understand that that may have been the reason. if you did absolutely nothing wrong, then no, do not forgive him. my ex cheated on me with 4 other girls and i tried to forgive him. he had no reason to do it, just that he wanted to, and now i am suicidal and everything else, because even after that he continued to do it for months afterwards. there are some circumstances where you have no reason but to forgive and some circumstances where you have no reason to forgive.
Honestly everybody makes mistakes, even i do. If you think you two have a really deep connection then, you should forgive him, i mean people change, but cheating is not a good thing to do, because it hurts people. He may not deserve it but who knows he could change. and if he does this again, then just dump him, because he doesnt deserve you, your most likely a really nice, caring, and pretty girl. Be strong, hang in there! -Kaley
Once a cheater always a cheater. I would know. I was in the same situation. My ex cheated on me and then asked me back but I said no and a week later he started talking to the same girl he cheated on me with. Unless you know him well enough that you know he won't do it again and he'll change. Pay attention to his actions . That's what counts. If he says he wants you back but when you're around, and he doesn't prove it. Don't take him back
well.. I forgave my bf when he cheated...two years ago.. but we broke up for a year now we have been dating for what seems like forever now..but yeah.. and now we r getting engaged... so yeah i guess it is okay
It depends on how much you love the person, if you have enough faith a nd hope that he won't do it again then, yes you should, and just as long that person knows you trust him/her theres a bigger chance they won't do it again. Just faith and hope and patience (:
i guess it depends on the "cheating" factor. what you see as cheating isnt seen as cheating with another person, if they kissed hugged, cuddle etc, maybe sex? No... but thats my point of view on that. but forgiveness doesnt mean you trust the person, because the saying trust is like a paper, when you crumble it up, its never perfect. Trust is a big deal, a lot of people take advantage of. So my answer is yes, depending on if it involves sex. (: but i wouldnt trust them
yes , My boyfriend cheat on me , but he prove to me loyalty and I have no doubt about it, well sometimes , you have to forget 100 and forgive 100 if not, dont even think on giving a second chance. we are gonna get married now and Im so happy , happy as I can be... Think about it. But If you have your doubts ,I will not give a second chance.
Yes I have forgave a cheater. This will bring ALOT of trust issues into your relationship. But always remember the quote " cheat on me once, stupid you. Cheat on me twice, stupid me." If you truly love him/her then forgive that person. Always forgive, but never forget. Follow your heart.<3
well.. that depends if you really love that person if you love him/her and are willing to give him/her a 2nd chance then thats totally fine. If you don't think that you could ever trust that person again then that's fine too. and no one would blame u!
My boyfriend cheated on me and i forgave him because i loved him and we have now been together for almost 2 years now and we are 16 and 18 and we are as strong as we could ever be. Never think the negative. Always think the positive. (: And if you love someone you can't just forgive them and forget them? that doesn't even make sense.
yes forgive but you dont have to allow them to be apart of your life afterwards if you never forgive that person will forever have power over you. and you will never be able to start relationships with other people shure its not easy to forgive it never is but your not doing it for them but for yourself
It depends on how they cheated.If it was just a kiss, maybe. But if it was more than that... Well I couldn't do that to myself. Because like someone said, if their heart was all in the relationship there would be no reason to cheat.
iGuess Thee Answer Is Yess && Noo .. If He Cheatss Oncee, && You Forgivee Him, Chances Aree He's Goingg To Cheat Again .. But iDo Believee People Shouldd Have 2nd Chances .. But You Also Have To Think About Their Reasons For Cheating ... Are They Not Happy Withh The Person They Are Withh Right Now ..? If Not Then iGuess Its Timee To Findd Somebody Else ..
I have not experienced this, but I've always said that I would not tolerate it, under any circumstances. He may have good intentions to be faithful, but if he's done it once, he will do it again. A tiger never changes its stripes, and he has already shown you that he is weak when it comes to temptation. Find someone with integrity who respects you.