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My boyfriend says he has lost his try in our on and off ten year relationship. Should we give up? we still love each other.

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If it's been "on again, off again" for 10 years ... there's nothing substantial there, other than friendship ... and you've been trying to "force it" for 10 years.

It's way past time to admit there's nothing beyond friendship there, and move on.

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Make him change his mind.. Remind him that you guys will stay together through thick and thin.

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ask him y he has lost interest and see what u can do to help him get through your relationship with him

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You both love each other I don't think it's over yet. Talk to each other be open with each other. Love is beautiful but its not easy. If you guys talk and it seems like the relationship is at its climax then break up.

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If you love each other, don't make it off and on anymore. You need to make it more serious. If after that you realize that you really aren't up to commitment, it's probably a good idea to back out before you might get too attached. You have to start either being together or not being together.

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Heck no!! If y'all still love each other then no..maybe y'all just don't need to be w each other ALL THE TIME . Just maybe 3 days a week.(: remind him that y'all will make it, don't ever give up. y'all love each other(: just when y'all argue be like," lets not do this, this is just stupid, I love you."(: that's what I do.

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Your own question answers it, on and off, means you shouldn't be together in the first place. If your mot mature enough not to break up every time you fight, you shouldn't be together

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