Four Year Relationship Crumbling, please help
Ok here is the story.
I have been seeing a girl for four years. Our relationship was fantastic! We got along great, very passionate. Following two years she had graduated university and took a job which she ultimately hated. At 3 years our relationship mostly consisted of fighting, and her complaining about work. Around this time my mother passed away and we took some time apart. We got back together and at first things were better. But ultimately in the year that followed it deteriorated back to the point in which we hardly communicate throughout the day and see each other once a week. Our conversations tend to consist of discussing her niece, or how crappy work is. I dont see us long term because it really seems like weve grown up in such a way that our differences are outweighing our similarities, and i fear we only stay together for a sense of constancy, and fear of being alone.