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If youre dating a member from a gang are you considered to be in the gang?

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I don't know what you'd be considered to be, but I know you'd be putting yourself into a seriously dangerous situation. If someone's in a gang, it's very likely that he'll wind up either dead or in jail. Either way, he loses big time, and so do you. Even if he's the cutest guy in the world, run in the opposite direction, unless you want an unhappy life.

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Gang affiliation but no, not in.

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You would still get locked up right?!
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Guilty by association.
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maybe a night if they think you're guilty by associaton but unless YOU have done something or assisted in doing something, they can't keep/ charge you... well, they could do either actually depending on how much you may know if it's something horrible but for the most part, nada.
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But affiliation is almost as bad at times and very, very dangerous. Rival gangs might try to use you, or such...
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Fyi no
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You do know that the guys are often made to "share" their girlfriends don't you ? Are you ready to be used?
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She said that it was cause of a girl's post on FB.
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Maybe.

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Depends on the gang and if he is the head of the gang

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I doubt it

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check their gang "rule book"..

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Lol, do all gangs have one?
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not always written..but most have a chain of command and rules..
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yes guilt by association

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Ha! That's exactly what I just posted on random4books comment!
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ok = /
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ill say no.... but you can be a target from rivals....

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Not that its nothing or any thing but I like bad boys but you know you don't want to be
in a gang so you should try to get out of it before it gets to serious. Oh and you
Never know who is on the internet so don't put ur bessness out like that

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Its not about me. This girl posted it on facebook, but i was actually curious!(:
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Oh I was. Just asking. If you don't mind how old are you?
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16, you?
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18 want to follow me?
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hello?
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Gang affiliation. Get caught with a member who did something dumb the police will consider u affiliated.

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dont' do it!

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Just to be on the safe side, I would rather stop dating the guy. If he really likes and loves you, he will consider your safety more than anything else.

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Naaa........ I don't think so...!!!

But i guess, if u have ur date of the same gender... then maybe a yes!!

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What do you mean?
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I seriously didn't meant to offend u.... don't take that in a wrong way please,,,,,!!!!
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I didnt get ofended! Lol but i didnt understood what you tried to say!
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leave it know?

the gist of my answer is, No... maybe u aren't considered as a part of their group until and unless you or your date try to do that!!
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i know u r 12... but i also don't know anyone stupid as you, who asks people to text u :1. they are totally strangers
and 2. we cannot tect on landline numbers..... duh!!
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*text

u moron!!
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Ya... cool!!
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no i'll not!!

Is there anything else i can do for u!? Do let me know!! :P
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^^^ creepy
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nice "bay"??

yaaa..... gud night and go to hell.... first learn to read and write then come back... you LOSER!!
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i'll not come there.... you are in a misunderstanding......

come out of it...!!! because hell has losers like you, not gr8 like me!!

So please... keep out!! LOSER
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SHUT UP... moron
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Then thanks to u for being nice to me.... But i won't stop it!!!

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i am already doing what i want.... u r not anyone to tell me... what should I do....

Better keep out!!
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Ok?!?
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I wasn't saying all this to u.... @abrilamt...!!!

there was one member as @Julian03 who was fighting with me, but as he was under age.... i.e. he was 12, so ask.com removed him!!!
so accordingly, his furious and irritating comments were also removed!!
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M4RxDR

:/ Just because you're dating someone from a gang doesn't mean you're in the gang yourself. It means you'll be leaded into lots of trouble.

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No just no very smart.

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No you have to be initiated to be in the gang regardless if you are dating him or not. Which I'm sorry but that is a very bad idea.

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Not a member but an alliance who agree's on what they do and what they don't. A follower in another word.

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you are considered to be gang affiliated. However if you are with this person and he is arrested and a.known gang member the arresting officer may classify you as a gang member as well. often its in your records and your not aware of this. if arrested you automatically do more time. I strongly urge you to RUN as fast as you can AWAY from this guy before you get too involved. Stay and you will suffer heart break, damage to your self esteem and trouble beyond your imagination. often times a rival gang member will get revenge by killing, maiming, torturing NOT the rival gang member but every person he cares about. you can do better honey. The bad boy types can be so intriguing in the beginning but it doesn't stay that way and the constant stress will make you old before your time.

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No but you can get caused in it the enemies of your boyfriends gang can kidnap you and all that when your hanging with your boyfriend drive by can happen or anything if this is a serious gang beware of the things can happen Js...

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No but stay away from the rivals

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No. But it's not the best/safest idea to be dating someone in a gang.

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wow ^-^
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If you don't want to be you're not it's your decision.

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(yes/ and -/ no)If he makes a wrong move.. 'his gang might come after you or his family and hurt or even kill you.. same goes if a different gang one of his rivals.. could come after you or his family.. Bad idea chica!! better to cut your loses now before he or someone eals ashoited with them hurts you. .., Gangs are all about drugs,money,sex,blood , and braking the law.., and if you f* with them the f* u up or kill you.. i'v never heard anything good about gangs.. think their above the law and anyone and everyone eals.. '' i think' one* of the reason ppl get in a gang is for pertectshion.. witch is a loud of bull $$*t! cus I always hear of people getting killed or killing other people who are in gangs. run the other way && run fast!! and dont look back!!!!! Godspeed!

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This is not even a question to be asked.. You should've been long gone!! Look for a happy environment not a violent one. Yes you will be affiliated and your kids will be too if you decide to grow a family in that environment. Take care of business in school and home first, then even worry about a bf. but not a gang member who most of them domestically beat their girlfriends. So I'm sure you don't want a black eye every other week. Good luck.

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I know this answer because I'm related to a gang memeber. If you are dating a gang member or are related to a gang member you are connected to the gang. You are not considered an actual member but are part of the gang. One way to know you're related to a gang member is because people in the gang will approach you and tell you they are in the gang. if you live in the neigborhood with them or they see you out on the streets or they see you in a neighborhood they live in. they will tell you they are in the gang.

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no you would not be a part of the gang. You have to get in like everyone else.. Which if you both love each other will most likely happen. And depending on the gang you may be used for everyone meaning everyone gets sex. If your a guy and dating a female that is part of a gang then there are issues there as normally she should be dating in the gang but can date outside but the guy would then be jumped into the gang so it does not happen often. However caught with a gang member they either take it as you are one of them or you are just as bad as them to be hanging around with someone that is a known gang member. Hope that helps.

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