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I am a girl and I have cut my hair as the boys have .Now every one is laughing at me ?What should I do with them.How to stop them ?

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Do your best to ignore them. It's your hair and it's your choice how to wear it. The people who want to make fun of you because your hair may be different are the same ones who will make fun of someone who has a different skin color, religious or sexual preference...or is just different. They are small minded...don't let them bug you. Enjoy that hair cut!!

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Don't mind them...ignore them, smile.
And be confident.

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Ignore them. They'll get over it eventually.

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Really? Short hair? Is that all it takes to get kids all riled up? Just remember that when it comes to hate, it's better to receive than to give.

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Continue to be your unique self. You cut your hair because this is what "you" wanted to do. Unfortunately, there is no way to stop people from being unkind and ignorant. Don't respond to their taunts, walk away and enjoy your new do!

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tell them to just shut up......
u do what U want...not what THEY want......tell mind their own business.....
walk with ur head up high.....and do not listen to them....u like ur hair and that's all that matters......
i too had real short hair a few years ago......and people used to tease me first..... but when i never listened to them they just stoped...infact they started to like my hair.....

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go walk with ur head held high.......
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I doubt if you can stop them :) The least you can do is to laugh with them. Don't worry you can still have your long hair back. It's not yet the end of the world.

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It's how you carry your self. Nothing to worry, be confident sweetie <3
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Thanks for making me confident !
Now I will face them with courage !
Yes I can ! :)
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Shake your head and tell them how sorry you feel for them because they do not have the guts to be themselves.

Walk around with your head held high! You are not one of the mindless sheep who let others decide who they should be. Cutting your hair like that is brave and I have thought about it, but haven't done it. That makes you braver than me, and trust me I am not a shy, wimpy person. Good for you!

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Put a colorful streak in it. If those laughing are your friends they may just be being playful while they get used to it. However if they are really being insensitive call them on it and let them know how you feel. Remember : " No one can make you
feel inferior without your permission."
I bet it looks great .

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Welcome to ask.com and starcookies... :)
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Star for good answer and cookies to be different and show a little extra kindness... starcupcakes too
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"No one can make you feel ANY particular emotion without your permission." One of my favorite sayings from my mother. Hat tip to Marj.
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wife- Eleanor Roosevelt. I cannot take credit. (Are there grey stars and gold stars?) where are cupcakes found?
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Answer them as: "It's my hair. I doesn't hurt you anyway. And I am always very unique than you all!"

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Well just pretend you don't care! They are just trying to make you upset! If you ignore them and see that they are not bothering you, hopefully they will stop!

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Don't be ashamed of how you look. Love yourself for who you are. Besides, if YOU can except yourself for you, they can too.

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Just be yourself. And ignore them. So what, you decided to wear your hair differently. They are biggots for picking on you, just because of how you cut your hair.

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I bet you look cute as a button and these kids are putting you down because they are jealous. Try to ignore them until they find someone else to pick on. I do have a nasty comeback but I don't want to tell you cuz it's mean. If it continues get on ask and I will tell you what to say. It's not cuss words or anything dirty but it will stop them dead in their tracks.

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Find peace in the fact that people can be so insensitive. And when all is said and done the only way to get through it is to not look to others for acknowledgement free will is a god given gift.

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Laugh with them and wear a pretty red lipstick...

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Thanks...h ur foot..
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Oh fine! It is what it is, and I get along great. I have limited range of motion at the ankle, but it's no biggie! I jumped out of that airplane in 1998, so I'm used to it.
Here's how I dealt with it.... When I first had the hardware installed (plate & 8 screws) I had to stay off it. Of course the muscle went bye-bye. You could stick magnets to my foot! I grabbed a big ole magnet, the kid's homework A+ paper, and said, "Look! Better than the refrigerator!"
Now, I rarely remember that it happened. :)
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tell em to f... off no don't do that just ignore them if you like it that's all that matters

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simple u dnt worriey leave them what ever they say or laught ignor them

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Ignore them.. Be confident.. and be happy with your hair! *^^*

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no problem! I used to have really short hair for summer.. hihi ^^
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Wow I also cut my hair for summer season ! :)
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hihihi.. It's summer again here in my country.. My hair is quite long now though.. on the shoulder level.. but I'm still thinking if I'd cut it again or not.. I wanted to have longer hair this time.. hihihi ^^ perhaps next summer.. haha
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I think you should cut your hair as it is summer fashion hairstyle in Asia !
It is summer in my motherland and I have returned to her just to speNd my vacations ! So I cut mu hair :)
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I'll think about that.. haha.. maybe I'll get a haircut.. a change of hairstyle.. but not so short as I had last summer.. haha... but I still love short hair though.. it feels comfortable and light ^^
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It is easy to handle and wear short hair !
Problem like difficulty in combing hair does not occur nor we have to take tension of making styles for long hair :)
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true story :3 hahahaha...
all we need is our finger-comb :P
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Finger comb ......?
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Oh ok I understood !
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hahahahaha :P yeah ^^
anyway.. have to logout... I'm at work now.. hahaha..
t'was nice talking to you ^^
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Me too is happy to talk to you !
I hope we will talk again soon ! :)
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sure. hihihi.. this is the only open site that I could log in to here in the office >.< lol
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Tegoshi are you there ?
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yeah... I'm here... I had my class a while ago.. but now I'm vacant.. so yeah ^^
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Hey how was your day ?
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Ohh~~ I usually sleep during the day.. haha xD I work at night.. so yeah~~ I'm at work now.. but my next class would still be around 3am (Philippine Time).. how about you?? ^^
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I have taken exams and now I am preparing myself for practical exams ! :)
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yay~!!! good luck!!! by the way.. what are those exams for?? are you still studying? university? ^^
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I am school student !
I will Join college after practical exams M
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I see ^^
How young are you by the way? ^^
Do your best in your exams... :)
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I am still 10th clas student but will be promote to college after exams . This is my last week in school !
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I am 14 years old !
I will turn on 15 on 9th may !
What about you ?
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I am 14 !
What about you ?
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omg!! you're so young!!! ^^ hihihi
Ohh~~ it's coming up ^^ yaay!!
I just turned 22 last month :3
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You are also young !
Infact 22 years of age is the best to enjoy life !
tegoshei I will see that will you wish me on my birthday or not ! :D
Hmmmmmmmm
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yeah.. I'm young at heart.. :P
well.. I'm actually really childish that even some teenagers are more mature than I am.. xDD
ooohhh~~ we'll see ^^ :P I'm bad on dates~~ but will do my best.. :D
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Great I will wait !
You know I like your childlike simplicity !
Tell me do you watch doraemon cartoon !
It's my favourite !
I like Sunyo !
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Wow!! Thank you! :)
Oh~~ yeah.. I used to watch Doraemon ^^
I actually love Japanese animations..
so yeah - - - Doraemon is one of them ^^
It's epic! I hope Doraemon exist.. :P
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Which character is your favourite ?
it is dubbed in our national language and very famous among us !
Every one want to have gadgets like doraemon has !
Hahahahahahaha !
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I'd be picking Doraemon.. He's cute and seems cuddly.. :3
Ahh.. I see... I've been into Doraemon when I was younger.. ^^
Some episodes were aired here when I was in high school.. I guess??
But Doraemon anime is still going on in Japan~~ I've watched an episode last year while streaming on Japanese TV online ^^
Hahahaha.. Ikr??? :) Lucky Nobita ^^
Do you watch other animations? o.O
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I like Japanese action movies and their culture which they show to whole world in their movies !
I like small cups which they use to take tea !
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Ahh~~ cool! me too.. haha..
Anyway.. Esabel, I have to go for now.. have to prepare for my next class ^^
So yeah.. Let's continue this next time ^^ Talk to you soon! :)
Thanks much ^^

>>Shei
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Ok go now and enjoy your class :)
I will wait for you !
Good bye friend :D
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Thanks ^^
Ahh.. I had one class . . . I had fun.. my student was bubbly ^^
and 10 minutes from now..
I'll have 6 more classes straight before I go home..
So yeah, I'll probably be back later tonight..
I'll just message you here ^^
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Enjoy the rest of your day.. and have a great night! See you :3
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I will be there at night to talk to you :D
Ok then just message me here :)
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Hi ^^ I'm at work already ^^ yay! How was your day? :)
I have classes for the next 2 hours.. I will message you during my free time.. that's for sure ^^
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My day was great ! I enjoyed performing practicals at school and talking to my friends ! What about your work ? What do you do ? :D
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I will come on here after two hours ! So keep on taking classes and have a lot of fun friend :D
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great! and congratulations for a great practical exam performance! I know you did well :) I'm an online English teacher... I'm enjoying it as well.. My students are usually Japanese and sometimes Taiwanese :)


Okay! Talk to you later :) I guess I'll be free until 3am.. if there wouldn't be any bookings for class ^^
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Wow wonderful ! You are English teacher ! I like teachers !:D
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Actually I graduated as a nurse... But, I wanted to try something different... so yeah, I applied as an online teacher.. I wanted to have a Master's degree in Nursing soon.. So, I'm saving now ^^
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I know you will soon get it my friend !
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Yay! Thanks for that!! :) I really hope so ^^
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I will pray for you ! :D
Tell me do you have Skype I'd !
If u don't mind we can talk by using Skype ! Only if you are willing !
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Thank you so much! :)
Ohh~~ I don't mind at all ^^
But my lappy isn't fixed yet at home so I couldn't use skype...
However, I'll try to have it fixed before this month ends ^^
I use the same username -- > tegoshei
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This means you have I'd ! :D
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Hey I checked and your location is written as Philippine !
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yes ^^ that's right :) hihihi :)
and I'm from the Philippines ^^
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Ok great I am going to add u
Try 2 open Skype and add me
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I couldn't open my personal account here in the office... Sorry ^^
We're using skype but official account for the teachers.. so yeah~~
Maybe I could add you up at the weekend during my day off...
How about facebook? if you add me now, I could add you back when I go home later today ^^
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I don't have Facebook I'd !
My Skype name is Muhammad Mahaz khan Khattak !now I am going to ask you stupid question ! Hahahaha are you a girl ?
I am allowed to add only girls !
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Ohh I see ^^
Wow.. so long.. hahaha.. but don't worry..
Just send me a request and I'll be accepting it as soon as I can ^^
Yes... I'm a girl ^_^ so no worries :D
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And yeah~~ I guess I'll be going off now... I have straight classes from 3-7am... so yeah... I'll talk to you again soon ^^
Thanks as always ^^ Take care :D
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Thanks Allah ! Sheila this means that you are Muslim !
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ahh.. no.. I'm not Muslim.. I'm a Christian.. but I have nothing against religion.. ^^ I'm quite open about it ^^
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Great sense ! I appreciate you !
Formally I thought that you were from japan !
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Hi friend.. how are you?
ahh~~ I am fully booked today...
So I'm afraid I couldn't chat a lot... TT TT
But my dayoff is on the weekend ^^
We can chat by then :)
Take care ^_^
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I am suffering from influenza !
On the day after tomorrow will be my physics practical exam !
I missed you a lot yesterday !
I hope you will have a lot fun in your classes ! :D
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ahhh~~ that's too bad :(
do your best to rest today.. please..please...
I want you to feel better tomorrow for your exam...
It's my vacant now.. then I'll have a break for an hour outside the office..
When I come back, I'll have straight classes from 2-7am...
Please be well soon.. :)
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Don't worry friend ! I am happy That you take care of me :D
Doctor has prescribed medicines for me and I am following his advice !
I hope that I'll soon recover my health !
Pray for me so that I will be able to get full marks in my exams :D
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Thank you... That's a relief! :)
I hope so too ^^ So, don't stress yourself too much.. :)
Of course! I'll be praying for your recovery and your exams^^
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Great :D it makes me happy that you will pray for me !
tegoshei I have to go now to prepare my self for exams !
Talk to you soon :D
I hope you will have a wonderful night and good experience with students :D
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Okay! ^^ Take care.. And talk to you soon ^^
I'll be logging off now too ^^
Thanks as always :)
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Hello there!
So, how did your exam go??? ^^
I know you did well.. ^^ So yeah.. take care today too :)
I hope we could chat later in skype ^^
I'll use my mom's pc... she doesn't have a mic though >.>
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I am having two more exams for which I have to prepare my self !
I am missing you too much :D
I hope we will soon talk on Skype :D. Yayyyyyyyyy
I want to tell you many things my friend ! :)
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hello there..
How are you??
Ohh.. Good luck then... ^^
Aww... I miss you too my friend ^^
I added you in skype already.. but I couldn't catch you online ^^
Perhaps I could be on skype next weekend ^^
See you soon!!! ^^
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Yeah I opened my Skype and came to know that you have added me !
Tell me is this your pic in Skype !
I'll be free on this Sunday then we can talk there :D
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Yes.. yes... that's me on the pic ^^ hihihi xD
Who was that on your pic? that was a guy.. hmmn..
I hope we could ^^ I'll try.. okay? :)
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He is my bro ! I am using his I'd :D
I liked your pic ! Infact you were looking awesome !
Your hairstyle is same as mine !
Yayyyyyyyyyy we will talk ! :D
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ohh.. i see ^_^
hihihi ^^ so just message me then when we're both online..
so i would know it's you ^^ hihihi :D
nyaay! thanks! I actually just changed my hairstyle last Friday ^^
and that's the one you saw ^^ hihi... :D
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Hello dear... I'm so sorry I wasn't able to use skype last weekend.... I was really busy with something, so yeah.. wasn't able to come online... hopefully, I could catch up with you some other time... Take care :)
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Where we're you during previous days ! I missed you a lot :)
U were not even online there :D
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Ahh... so yeah... it was my day off... but I wasn't able to use my mom's PC that much... and also, I've been fully booked lately.. but a good thing is... I don't have much class tonight.. unless someone would book suddenly.. hahaha.. xD I missed you too... This coming weekend, I will try to be there ^^
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say something to them such as ' Hey guys I really don't like you picking on me about my new hair, I know it is weird and very new but I like it, and I wish you would too, I mean even if you don't like it than don't show it please do that from me" and if that does not work say nothing act like they are not there and walk right thought them when you are around your friends and they come up and say some thing say "(who ever you are around at the time friend) do you hear something it sounds like a bee there must be a bee somewhere because there s no one near us that is talking or making the bee noise that is so weird" Then walk off or piss.

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Hey! I'm a girl and I have REALLY short hair! My mom's even taking me out in a couple of days to get another haircut. Anyway, it's YOUR hair and YOURself. Just ignore the girls, and think of them in their underwear. It always works! And still, short hair is pretty! Emma Watson, ( Hermione Granger in Harry Potter,) has short hair, and she's the prettiest girl ever!

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Tell them to shut the heck up.

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Oh my gosh! That is a TERRIBLE idea! Don't be so RUDE!!!
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ask them respect your idea.it's your hair and you do what you want.

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