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Is it bad for me to love someone, that my parents don't approve of? I mean, love is love....right?

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the answer to question one, is no, it is fine to love someone who your parents don't approve of. However, as to question two, there is a fine line that must be drawn, as the actual definition of love has become so twisted that most don't even understand what it actually means to "love" anymore. Most just equate it to s3x, and so you end up with a host of problems stemming from that, but that is most definitely not the definition.

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Mr. No it all
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It's not bad no one can decide who you love

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Ok:)
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What? Lol
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Ok
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No it is not, after all your parents have no control over your feelings for another person.

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Your Right Love Is Love And Nobody Can Stop You =D

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Yes your right love is love, and puppy love is something different, you may think you know the meaning of it but trust me you won't know the meaning of love for probably several more years, and if your parents don't approve there's a reason why, listen to your parents, they are paying the bills, buying your food and putting clothes on your back, they are your number one priority...

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Ya.. love isn't sex. I don't know why youngins think that now a days. ._. But if you love him or her you love him or her... If your parents hold a grudge it's not your problem.. Forget what they think, it's not them who's the one that is loving the person you love.. It is you and theres nothing wrong with that. Nobody controls who you love.. :p

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You know i think i can never approve anyone for my own daughter cause to me no one is an angel and i believe my daughter deserve one but i still consider the human nature and i accept the fact that we all have flaws we need to work on, therefore i'd support her and him to find their path together. What am saying is: it's ok if your family don't approve him cause the are looking after your best but that doesn't mean that you can't take your chances and fall in love and work it out. Good luck :)

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Ask yourself what you're parents are seeing, that you don't.

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Why do your parents not approve of him? I see Torngren and I are thinking similarly. Try and think with your brain and not with your hormones.

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It's not that they don't like him. They just wish he was a smart, Harvard attending, perfect, type of guy. He's cunning, brave, and outgoing, but he makes good decisions. They just expect more out of us both, I guess.
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Chloe, Were you born in 1998? Sounds like you are in your midteens? Be careful. You are at a crucial time of your life now. Your parents want the best for you I am sure. One of those things is to NOT become pregnant. Don't rush things. Would it help for the both of you to spend time with your folks so they can get to know him and visa versa? How old is he and do you go to the same school?
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the people who love u the most in the world are ur parents, if they dont approve there would be some solid reason, atleast ask them what is the cause of their disapproval_

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Um no you can love who ever you want and your parents should just be happy your happy with this person

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Not necessarily. He may not be good for her.
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you love who ever you wanna love but respecting your parents well you kinda half to do at a young age doesn't mean you can't love that person just means its better to wait until you can do whatever to love that person at eighteen then sneaking and hiding and going threw so much behind your parents back and then get caught and half to get grounded over it or wait until your old enough to make that decision weather or not u wanna move in or get a place of your own i guess at the age where your parents really cant do anything but follow your heart its your happiness love whoever makes you happy no one is gonna take the love you with hold in your heart hun

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yes,there has to be good reasons for your parents to not approve of this person.reasons you may not see now:/

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Yeah totally fine!! U are ur own person

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Ask your parents why they don't approve of him.

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Not if your in love with Hitler, Charles Manson.

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