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I need help my boyfriend told me he doesn't care about me i don't know what to do.

I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half now and we argue about silly things and the situation that made him tell me he didn't care about me anymore is my ex boyfriend best friend had my number and has been harassing me and i decided to try and deal with it myself so i kept it quiet which i know now was wrong but i'm used to being independent girl and sorting stuff out so i tried ignoring and it seemed to of went quiet so i thought that my ex's best friend had given up but then on Thursday night i was with my boyfriend and i got another harassment text message and basically my boyfriend blow his top about it and just left me crying in the street,then rang me the next day going he don't care about me anymore and that his friends were always gonna be important to him and he will see me when he wants and he will go clubbing because he thinks it will hurt me,he's already cheating on me once at his best friend party with to be honest some slag i love him so much but i don't know if me and him will ever be okay again.... Can anyone give me and suggestions please be great help spend all my time crying coz i never know what to do. Many Thanks

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This guy is an @ss. Leave him now, and find a guy who will actually treat you right. You deserve a lot better than what he's giving you, so don't settle for it, find someone better.

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I'm sorry but he already cheated on you once. And you should never put up with that! There are a lot of guys out there that will treat you good. Don't get back together with him. I know it hurts now but trust me it will get better.

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let me put it to you as simply as I can...RUN! if this dude can tell you he doesn't care about you then he isn't worth your time. if you two stay together he will continue to hurt you like this over and over again. also if he has cheated already then your feelings aren't important to him. he is #1 in his life and that isn't how a relationship is supposed to work. I being a man have gone through something similar but from the other side of the fence. anyone who can emotionally detach from you will eventually leave you. I'm so sorry but if you haven't cheated on him you should run from this guy and keep your head held high. someone else is out there who will respect you, love you, and is secure enough in himself to not blow up when he sees a silly text message. I've got a feeling your boyfriend is also very insecure which will more than likely lead to him controlling you or in an extreme instance hitting you. another reason why you should run. I hope this helps being from a man's point of view.

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Better to dump him now when it hurts relatively little than later when it will hurt much more.

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Well it doesn't seem like that's a real relationship bcuz it doesn't seem like he likes you and he cheated on you and left you crying. I would break up with him if I was you. It would be better if it ended bcuz if he doesn't care then u shouldn't either. Be strong and let him go. Ik it can be hard. good luck

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ive been harassed by guys for not doing what they wanted me to do honestly download a app that tells you who calls and block the person harassing you also report to the police if not block him from calling and leaving text messages by downloading a blocking app i have one on my cell its works and for your boyfriend break up with him he should care about your safety your mom and dad well family would want you to be respected and loved and cared about from a nice guy srry but your boyfriend sounds like a loser but if you love him go to party so he doesn't cheat and talk to him about why he said he didn't care and was it true what he meant and how that made you feel and ask him would if i said that to you wouldn't you feel heartbroken and girly your independent you don't need a guy your strong enough to stand alone so don't let this one guy hurt you you can find better

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hi i have an iphone what the name of the app you have ? and there has been 2 lots of harassment incidents and when he found out about the first he went mad so why would i tell him about the second incident and now coz there has been a second incident he tells me his friends and family are move important than me.
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mr.number app and whos call app they both block people but the who calls tells you the area and name the mr. number looks up the number and tells you so more information about it and people that call block call to so both apps work and im really sorry about your boyfriend you don't deserve that
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People who cheat can go ballistic when the partner appears to be cheating (you). They do this to hide their own guilt. I feel strongly he has cheated on you more than once. He has no respect for you. If you have any self-esteem at all, you should do the breaking up.

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I mean if he don't care which he so does he's just a @$$ you act independent like you said your am independent girl(: act like it don't bother you , he'll come back I'm sure!

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