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How do you Help Someone before it's too late from Bullying?

Recently I have been Bullied a lot in School and People are constantly beating me up, People are saying mean things to me, and even on Facebook, People would type mean messages to me. I have been to the Hospital once from cutting myself and I NEED HELP! Can Someone out there PLEASE Help me with all of this Bullying? :'(

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I'm sorry you're going through this. You need to make your teachers, your principal, and your parents/family aware of what's going on and make sure they get you help. Delete your Facebook. Stand up to the people that bully you. Show them you are strong and not afraid. Tell adults everything the bullies do to you. They need to step in and get involved. No one can let this slide.

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You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still like air I'll rise. -Unknown

Dear anyone getting bullied, Never lose hope. Please don't ever give up. It does get better, no matter what you think. -Unknown

Bullying is for people which dont have any confidence at all, so everyone which is being bullied, always remember; They are scared of you.You have something that they dont and thats what makes them bully you.Dont let any words from bulliers affect you because they are the ones which need some confidence, not you. -unknown.

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you need to block all the people that have said or hurt you or have messaged you on facebook now and every social network site you have or are on and then you need to relax hun alot of people get bully i would talk to your principal and counselor and your parents about this issue try doing what makes you comfortable like changing schools or doing online classes for awhile or switching seats i would recommending also to block and download apps for blocking people sending you text messages or calling you download the app mr.number or whos call you should also don't tell any information out about your life to no one and for beating up i would say plz don't let people hurt you walk away call the police on these people to and for beating you up and harassment

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also i would have your parents consider getting you your license and driving home from school or have them pick you up from school instead of taking the bus listen to music make better friends like ill even be your friend you don't need people like that in your life or hurting you
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That is terrible. I'm sorry some kids have to go through that. Tell teachers and your parents what is happening. Adults sometimes mistakenly think bullying is just a normal part of growing up, but it's not. It's very harmful. They also sometimes struggle because of things like the bully saying it was an an accident. Adults are afraid of wrongly accusing someone. Unfortunately you can't control the bullies or the adults who SHOULD protect you. Here are a few things you can do for yourself.
1. Hang close to teachers as often as possible. Bullies are less likely to act if there's a good chance they'll be caught red handed.
2. If you get hit or called names, tell the bully to stop. Say it kinda loud so it draws attention, but don't scream and act irrational. Just a firm "Stop calling me names!" Standing up for yourself a bit sometimes earns respect. DON"T hit back or call names back. It will give them an excuse to do it more, even if you see it as getting even.
3. Remind yourself that you ARE a valuable person and bullies only try to make you feel otherwise to make themselves feel better.
4. Remember that most bullying ends in early high school, almost ALL ends by college. You will not have to put up with this forever. 5. Speak up for other kids who you see get bullied. People don't want to be the first one to speak up because they don't want to be targeted by the bully, but if you do it, others around will generally jump step up and do the right thing.

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People make me sick...
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whats your name?

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Nuthing worng with you, thirs something worng with them.
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Other than the answers above, the bully usually hates himself. He comes from an uncaring, unconcerned household. He is usually jealous of the person he bullies. Remember!!! This ends after high school. You have 70 more years to live. You can get through a few years of this crap if you can keep rereading these answers.

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What turns off a fire? Certainly not another fire. What makes the waters calm down, the Bible says that bthe soft response calms the anger, but the rough respond adds wood to the fire. Its in Proverbs. Well, fight hatred with love. They cuss you, you bles them, they push you, you bring them closer. They call you names without knowing what they are talking about, tell them you love them and talk to them knowing what you re talking about. Sure, they will try to stop you from being that way, so things might get a bit worse at the beggining, but eventually, they will either change or find you too annoying and go away. However, be wise and careful. Dont blame this advice if something happens for a bad decision. But this is good advice. Gby.

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