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How do i tell my best friend she looks ugly without glasses; without hurting her feelings....

my best friend looks absolutely horrific without glasses, how do i tell her?

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You can tell her she looks good without glasses but she is more prettier with them on. This is happening because you are used to seeing her in glasses and now that she does not have them, you think she looks weird.

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Well that's pretty rude, even for a best friend to say.

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Hey, it's more rude to lie. Even if it sounds nice, it's a lie and will turn the "compliment" into a disaster.
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I didn't say she should lie.
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is there really a point in telling her?

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That is, quite blunt. you must be a very straight foreword person, on the internet. Why not instead compliment how good she looks with glasses.

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tell her that she looks pretty without her glasses but you think she should put them on to protect her eyes............

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You might want to say it a little softer than you look ugly without glasses. you could say "I like you better with glasses" or " your glasses really frame your face well" or something like that

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Simple you don't you say she looks nice with them on...

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Say: you look so much prettier with your glasses, you should wear it on more often

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That's Pretty Rude Despite Her Being Your Best Friend But....I Wouldn't Tell Her But If You DO Wanna Say It Be Like "Hey your my bestie and all but you look really...weird with/out glasses but don't take it in a mean way I still love you :)"

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Tell her if she's not going to wear glasses she should wear eye makeup. Or, don't say anything at all.

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just say this" You look nice but i think you look more prettier with them on :)"

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Maybe say your so used to her having glasses on that sometimes you don't recognize her in the halls or something. Tell her that she looked so much more "her" with glasses, and that she looked so much nicer. Hope I helped!

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dont its not her fault she has to have glasses i mean really why would you ask this

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Just Tell Her If You Guys Are Really Friends It's Not Gonna Ruin Your Friendship .... && It It Does She's A Crybaby And Needs To Wipe Her Eyes && Get Over Herself . It's Not That Big Of A Deal .. iHave Big Eyes && My Friend Tells Me That iShould Always Wear Glasses Bcus iLook Weird Without Them .... She Shouldn't Be Melodramatic !

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Don't tell her! there is nothing wrong with being ugly!

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Tell her the truth. It doesn't matter how horrid the message will be, it's truthful, and you should always tell the truth no matter how rude it may sound.

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"You look so much better in glasses, you should keep them on, without them you look incomplete! You're prettier with them, without them you're still pretty, but it looks like somethings missing."
Always tell your friends they're pretty, and never voice if you don't think they are...

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never call you friends ugly its just rude they are not your friend just so they can be called ugly and just dont tell her if you dont want to hurt her feelings (sorry if i sound rude i hate coming cross a question like this and a friend calls an other ugly i lost a friend cuz that happened and i didnt even say they were ugly so please just dont do it )

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I wouldn't say that, because it could definitely hurt her feelings. What I would do is not say anything, but if she wants to go a day to school or around people without her glasses, tell her that you think she looks better with her glasses on than without. If it's just you guys alone, like you're over at her house or something, I would just not say anything. Hopefully you're good enough friends that you can look over that. Hope this helps!

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what?! why?! do?! u?! want?! 2!? do?! that?!

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say You ug without glasses or if you have nothing nice to say don't say it

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you dont tell her that that is horrible

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