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Does my ex really just wanna be friends?

Me and my ex broke up a week ago, she said we could still try to be friends and still talk because she "still wants to be" my friend and she "doesn't want" me to hate her, but one day I was riding home on my long board and she was hanging out with her friends and this dude and one of them called my name and they all just hide from me, also I see her with this guy in pictures online and it's making me jealous, since we've just broke up. Than I was talking to her saying I feel bad and she said "just move on, I still want to be your friend though",so does she REALLY want to be my friend, or not?

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I don't think she really known what she wants at this point. But if you are finding that being around her brings out feelings of jealousy in you, you need to break it off completely. Sometimes "still being friends" after a romantic relationship breaks up just won't work.

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Well I just broke up with my bf a week ago and he said "it's ok if u dnt wanna be my
Friend either" I was like EITHER?!?!

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That's messed up :c I'm sorry
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It's fine he prob doesn't care tht he broke my heart
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maybe so..but she has a problem with you getting too close..let it go for now..

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What do you mean by close?
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she may feel like you're squeezing her space ..it may be pushing her further away..best to back off and let things be for now..
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Oh, I didn't see her at all. And usually when we talk, she talks first. like texting and everything
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then hopefully you are still in good standing with her..let it ride..and see how it goes..pushing won't help..good luck..
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you could be but from my personal affairs i'd recommend for you to just let her go and find yourself another hottie then when you do this 85-90% of the time she's gonna want you back don't go back though best of luck to you peace.

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Maybe. But I'll just stay single. That seems better
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thats good do you first then you'll be ready for a new relationship .
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To break it down for you, shes probably just trying to be nice. I was in that situation, except I was the girl. My ex was hurt badly so I said the line "Lets just be friends" till this day I never spoke to him. So you should probably keep on the down low.

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That's what I was thinking, but if that was the case. She still talks to me. Like, she talks to me first.
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Well, I think she might be leading you on..or better yet building you up. This guy I liked kept commenting on my pics on instagram, like saying I was pretty and then he would start a fight. It really hurt. So I pretty much know what your going thru...
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So that will happen to me 2?
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You ever heard that quote "Staying friends with an EX is like keeping your dead dog as a pet.". Yea, so I would say that she probably feels bad, and wants to be "friends" because she feels pity for you. Just move on get another girl and shove it in her face. Problem solved. :)

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I think she never really moved on.if she's really concerned about you moving on she probably still do like you.i would try talking to her and see what goes on from there.

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Idk. But I don't want to talk about it to her. That'd just make things bad between us
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What Do You R e a l l y Want
To Do? Are Y o u Ready To
Go Your Separate Ways?
First Settle Things In
Your Heart; Take
Control of Your
Own Destiny
M o v i n g
Forward.
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I'm not ready to go separate ways :c
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OK --- Still You Should Try
To Be Realistic About
Whether She Is The
One Ready To
Put Another
I n T h e
P i c.
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Yes

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No he wants to get in your panties

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no, probably not, he/she just probably wants to know what kind of people u r dating

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