It's wrong to be in a relationship with a MARRIED man -- period. The fact that he's your "best friend" doesn't change that one bit. He is MARRIED with 2 KIDS... the kids make it even more wrong. What you're doing with this "romantic relationship" is destroying someone's family. Ask yourself, would you want this done to you? Your answer to that is all the info you need, never mind what anyone on Ask has to say... but, I'll say it anyway since you asked -- YES, it is most definitely wrong... very wrong.
He's cheating on his wife, you're questioning it, and you're still not sure? Okay, it's tough when you're involved with someone so I'll not gripe about that. The main thing I'd say is wrong is if this man will cheat on his wife, he will cheat on you. The second thing wrong is that you are helping a man cheat on his wife. I'd advise you to back off until he decides whether he will stay with his wife or leave her.
In my opinion, the best way to answer your question is, while you were married, how would you feel if your husband was in a "romantic" relationship with another woman? No matter what "issues" your friend has in his marriage, your actions are very disrespectful toward his wife. Do not ever do anything you would not like being done to you. If this did happen to you in your marriage, it doesn't mean the cycle of infidelity should continue.
I am always amazed when I hear about one woman cheating with another woman's husband...women should know better. We are sisters, we have a bond that grows from common physical traits, our common love for our children and families, and our understanding of one another's emotional vulnerability. If you continue to ignore this sisterhood, someday you will bitterly regret it, because you are being disloyal to something very basic inside your heart.
Yeah, no that is a bad thing. You can't do that to his family. He has a wife.. kids.. imagine the damage you could do to that poor family. You may love him but he already has a family. It is too late for you unless he gets a divorce (which i dont think is okay to leave his wife for another woman.). I'm sorry if it sounds harsh but it's the truth. Think long and hard about what your next step will be.
yes because he is married and he does have a family,which you are breaking up! In some states a wife can sue a mistress for everything-i.e. money etc.Its true,and if he cheats on his wife with you,he will cheat on you with someone else. All you will be is alone,broke and without your so called best friend. besudes being labeled a homewrecker,word gets around fast!