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My boyfriend has Low T- help?

He used to take his meds, but has since stopped, we still are intimate a few times a week, but I am concerned that the longer he is off his meds the less and less we will be intimate. Anything I can do? if he refuses his meds. I love him, so I would never leave him over it... help?

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I don't know why he won't take the medicine however there is a new underarm roll on treatment that is put on daily like deodorant that works pretty good and there are the shots every two weeks that either you give him or someone else does and it's actually A LOT cheaper that the tube cream or underarm treatment if insurance and money is a problem. Besides your intimacy affected, the main thing is he won't feel as good without enough testosterone. He'll be more tired as time goes on. He's got to be convinced that it's about his everyday health.

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Thank you, I am afraid he will have to learn that on his own.. cause he isn't taking our words for it.. at the moment anyways.
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Yes, some people can be pretty stubborn but the main thing is embarrassment. They are embarrassed. He'll be more embarrassed later on and then maybe he'll take it but it will have to rebuild up in his system.
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And it's expensive but the shots aren't that expensive compared to gel. Oh well. Nothing you can do.
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No, if he refuses to take it, there's nothing that you can do.

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Unfortunately, unless he decides to take his meds, there's nothing you can do. Does he know that there's a shot he can get every few weeks so he doesn't have to take pills daily? Maybe he should speak to his doctor about options.

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Yes, he has done both the shots and gel... the real issue is .. he is cheap-- doesn't want to spend the $$$$ on the meds.... Will our sex life really go down hill?
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Unfortunately, yes. Maybe once he realizes that he'll decide to start taking his meds again. Good luck!!!
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Oh my goodness. I hope he doesn't know that his testosterone levels are being discussed on Ask. That would be a deal breaker for a lot of men. And even the weekly numbers of intimacy...

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