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How do you deal with these two family situations ?

the first situation is when ever my dad or sister and sometimes my mother try to borrow my stuff without asking me they will usually ransack my room or bag or what ever i am carrying that item in and if i ask for it back they go all gung ho on my butt saying stop being rude or i'm not done with it when they clearly are by just letting it sit there for days even months on end or just stealing it , the second situation is when my mother or my sister and sometimes my father get on to me when i don't help but the catch being i didn't even know they even needed help like i'm messing around on the computer and my mom is doing something and she needs help but i don't even know she is working in the first place and she is all " oh my goodness i swear you never help with anything get off your lazy butt and do something "and i am thinking to my self like what the heck if you would tell me hey son i need some help doing this or better yet call me or something i would
and don't get me wrong i respect my family but they are getting on my nerved

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Based on what you have said it sounds like you're the normal one and your family is spoiled... Just work through it and try not to let it upset you, there's nothing much you can do to change it, try to be more intuitive as to what your family or your moms needs may be, or just ask her if there's anything you can do to help...

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just have to put up with their bs and get out own your own as soon as you can

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For the second one just ask before you sit down at the computer if anyone needs help. If you make it a habit you will find everything will run smoother.

As for the first, may be your tone has something to do with them going "gung ho". I understand your frustration on them taking things without permission, but asking for things back nicely will go over much better.

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i appreciate the answer but i have told my mother to just tell me and she says that wen they work i should just stand and supervise i try to tell her thats besides the point she thinks that i have some sorta radar in my head that should go off when they do something as for the other part i do try that and they usually tell me to f off espiecally my dad he has the its my house i do what i want mentallity . sorry for bad spelling
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