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Why would he want that

my bf's name is Stanley and his friend is Julia and she asked me if she could join our relationship and i said idk and then i ask why and she said cause me and my bf is cute and then he told me he wants to be with both of us and i tried it but i didn't like it and i told him that and he said ok then she was rush to the hospital and so i text him telling him he can be with her if he wants but he says hes not leaving me and i dont know what to do he says he wants to marry me and have two kids and every thing help please

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hey bestie... Don't allow personal relations to be messed up.. He wants his gf and his friend both their's nothing wrong in that.. I would tell you to have a talk with him and make him understand that you love him so much and you don't want your relation to be shared. Every relation is important.. Hope that helps <3

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i did tell him and he said he picks me and i ask if he likes her and he said yes and then to top it off they live together :'(
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omg! That's not good
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yeah i know he may all ready had s3x with her and they're going out knowing i dont like it but i dont know what to do i really have strong feelings for him and every thing merp D":
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Shelby.. I'm not being rude but I would say that you need to break this relationship ASAP. You may not have any problems now but in future it may and I don't want that to happen. If you beileve I'm a good friend to you, please do it.
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ok :)
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oh and i like your friend tenzinsam XD
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is that ok with you
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No problem hun
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yay so how are you
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I am doing great.. How about you?
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maybe she is buy

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buy or bie
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This is honestly so messed up...

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i would tell him to pick one or leave him

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i did he said me but it doesn't seem like that's what he wants
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You my friend have yourself a love triangle not the best idea . Me personally I do not like to share . A girl is either all mine or she's not and that's all there is to it . I would suggest having a sit down with everyone and asking where you guys are going to go from this point .

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i did and well he said me and now he seem mad or sad that is said to pick me or her
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Well you can't keep this triangle going unless that's what you want . That's not what you want is it ? Exactly if he doesn't pick you then he obviously wants her and if he doesn't pick her he obviously wants you . One of you if not everyone is going to get hurt if you keep this " love " triangle up . You can care for more than one person , but you can't love more than one person that's not love . Love in a relationship is between two people not three or four or five .
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well no i dont want that but he did pick me and it seem like he wants her more and it really hurts
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I wouldn't do that at all pretty gross .. but to help I wouldn't do that BC most like to have a 1 special person + I wouldn't want him holding her hand or kissing her when he would be with u .ur better than that :P

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thanks
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tianahello

That's messed up. Don't allow it.

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