How should I deal with family drama
My mom and her 3 other sisters (my aunts) never really got along ever since my mom remarried this guy who has no life what so ever. He uses my mom for money and asks every family member for money so he can buy drugs . He's been to jail many times but my mom keeps going back to him. My mom is isolated from the family because of him. My grandparents don't like him either and they've tried to separate them many times. It's gotten so bad to the point that my mom couldn't pay the bills and my grandparents won't let her live with them. All our personal things are still packed up at my grandparents house. Plus my mom and my aunt got into a big fight a while ago which left a bruise on my moms arm but my aunt called the cops on my mom.. Which made no sense to me. And the other day my aunt texts me saying if we don't come get our stuff, they're going in the trash because their not a place to be used for storage. I didn't bother to text back.
I feel like I'm blamed because of all the stuff my moms done. How should I feel about all this. Right now I feel blamed and useless because I can't help my mom