Hi SissyMom! Moved over here for a moment, since i wanted to talk about Gita with you for a moment to see what you think about a few things. Her brothers seeming rush to get her to move to a hostel may be for good reason, he knows that there is really very little he can do to protect her not just physically, but( and this is a very important but in Indian culture) also her reputation! It's just the way it still is there, has nothing to do with her actions, its all about perception also! Just her being there so much without elder females and a bunch of young men can be misconstrued and can ruin her reputation and any chances she will have of making a good marriage. Now to us this may seem ridiculous and antiquated but, and again big but, that is still the way it is there pretty much and we don't know enough personal info to make any judgements otherwise I believe. So anyway, just wanted you to maybe think about that and see if you still think she should stay in the house?