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I was at lunch the other day and my friend went to go ask my crush out for me...
My crush said "Yes, sure ill date her" then his friends kept giving him reasons not to date me, and he said "Ok then No." why did he/they do that?

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His friends are a bunch of little pricks

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Either his friends are gay for him or they are looking for new drama.

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They all have gfs except my crush. and my school is always looking for drama so it might be that
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Because him as well as his friends are immature. He was going to date you because your friend asked him to, and then he didn't want to date you because HIS friends didn't want him to. Sounds like he doesn't have a mind of his own. Move on and find somebody who can make decisions for himself.

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He is also always hanging out with me and gives me compliments a lot..?
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It doesn't matter about that if he is still listening to his friends when it comes to dating you. And, it sounds like he is the kind of guy who would TELL his friends everything and anything about you (private things) if you were to date him. If it were me, I would find somebody else.
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Peer pressure he wants. Do date you but he doesn't want to loose all his friends

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He likes you! But... he wants to but he thinks if I date you my friends will think I am not cool and they will ditch him. Boys are very weird! :) good luck!

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Ugh. Don't listen to the people that say he likes you. If he really liked you, he wouldn't have let his friends change his mind like that.... Find someone else.

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His friends are probably trying to convince him that you've been around the block a lot with other guys in which I don't know if is true, but anyways it could also be that they just might be jealous of him getting with such a nice girl like you. And it could be this that they are nothing, but just low life four flushing sacks of sh!t. Just look for another guy who won't let his friends hold him back or talk him out of not dating you....

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may be one of likes you and wanted to date you or one of them likes him and wanted to date him.............

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Never ever ever ask a guy anything like that around his friends. They will always do what their friends say or want.

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Maybe his friend likes you ?

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Boys... *sigh*

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He doesnt have his own mind. Forget him and find someone who doesnt care about what people think about you and still likes you.

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he doesnt have a mind of his own . his pal must like u

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there just confused needy people

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Because they're little ... Huh, I can't even think of a word to describe such ...
'Merica.

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drama girly life is build around it so yeah good luck :/

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If his friends weren't there he would have kept with the yes but since they were there that's why he changed his mind it would have been better without them other boys around..

Or They were just probably jealous because he was about to have a girlfriend and they wouldnt have one..

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Peer pressure, and they're either jealous or gay for him, so jealous.

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Because they would of been jealous of him for having a girlfriend. And they are jerks. Hope this helps!:)

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I can think of two reasons. 1) He never really liked you in the first place and just went along with it, or 2) he let his friends get him down and led into peer pressure. I hope things get better for you!

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what reasons did they give?

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hes not aloud to date
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Thats reasonable.
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they probably did that because they dont want him to have a girlfriend because they scared that he will forget about it them

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Because if they did that then there not worthy in the spirit of love

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because his friends dont want you to take away him from them, or they are just idiots and jerks

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because girls dont really ask out boys and he thinks he doesnt likeyou beacuse he has a serious case of diaherrea

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boys will boys its cause hes around his guys i'm pretty sure he didn't mean it

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because so guys r total jerks. i hate when guys like that give us bad rep.they r just playing dumb.

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his friends are probably just jealous but maybe they are not good friends with you? you never know

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jealous

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