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Is it bad that there is such an age gap between us

ive been talking to this guy, he's six years older then me, im 16, is this wrong, i really like him

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I don't know what the "legal age" is in your state, but you are walking a fine line. If you are still underage as far as that goes, and any adult decides to press charges, his life is messed up for good because he will have to register as a s*x offender. You don't want that. You said you were "talking" to this guy, and I don't know what your version of talking entails, but be very clear, a 22 year old guy's hormones are raging. Don't mess yourself up, or him either for that matter.

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Good answer clickety!!!
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thanks witte! Sorry it took me a minute to get back. I've been gone...."in the streets" as my family tells me.....but, I was on a "mission". lol
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Okay, ??. No worries!:-).
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witte, I am going to have to hide my debit cards and one charge card in particular! I regret it everytime I get lured into a store with a good sale, and always end up in the baby aisle buying for my precious grandbaby!!!! I will "plead the fifth" on what all I spent............. lol
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Ah yes, those adorable babyclothes!! Oh so cute and oh so expensive for that small bit of material aye? How old is your grandbaby? Girl-Boy?
My downfall with shopping for kids comes when they hit around 4 and it's toy-time!! My stepson loved going to the toy store with me!! Ha,ha.
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Yes it is expensive!!!! My daughter is only 24, and she found out she was pregnant 2 days before her husband (only 29) passed away unexpectantly from complications due to diabetes. ( he had juvenile diabetes since he was 6) His sugar had gotten so high, all we know was that he had drawn up a shot of his insulin, but passed out before he could use it. She came home from work, and he was already in a coma. He was in ICU for 3 days, and his organs began to shut down. He passed away on the 4th day.
So, she moved in with us.....She could never even go back into the apartment they shared, and wouldn't even allow anybody to get ANY of her belongings. (off the subject I know) They had been married less than a year.
So, back to my Grandbaby!!! She is going to be 9 months on the 29th. Her name is Adrianna Nicole. I call her "mookie" which has stuck with everybody. lol I buy her so many clothes, tonight I actually bought one that I already had gotten her! hahahaha. I guess I REALLY liked. it. Yes it IS expensive for those tiny clothes. At Christmas time, I spent almost 80.00 for her dress. I LOVE "Baby Gap" clothes!
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They even make "baby converse" that I found on eBay, as well as those tiny adorable Nikes. I got her a onsie the other day that said "Does this diaper make my butt look big" LMBO
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.....oh also witt, Like you, I am getting VERY good at hiding receipts and pleading the "fifth", not that my husband would mind. He is AS bad if not worse than me
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no, no. not really. my friend is in HS. He talks to a girl who graduated.

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You're a minor. He is an adult and will be at risk of imprisonment. So yes it is bad.

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No, love comes in all shapes and sizes. Just be careful about what you and him do togethere! Hope y'all are happy together(:

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For that age, that's quite a difference

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Talk about awkward !
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I'm all for an awkward situation, but that's pushing it
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Uh, YEAH! For your age, that is a huge, bad bad BAAAD gap. He's an adult and you're still considered a child. That's almost illegal. Time to find someone your age.

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Thanks I'm glad you like it. Did you read my new profile? Lol
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Lol! Very nice! XD
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Thanks, I'm glad you like it. LOL
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no............if you both know your limits and he does not forces you to do anything............

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Uh well, to me I would have to say yes because he is older than you and has been around and you probably have not. And am not trying to seem harsh or mean, but just be careful I mean he could be pretending just to get close to you because your so young and him older. So be cautious when you are thinking there is actually something special between you two or basically anybody else older than you like this please....

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Good answer BlackRose!!!
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Thanks :)
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Well, everybody has their own age limit, so this one is yours to decide. if you feel that he will be faithful to you-a teenager- and not want things that you cant give him then there's nothing wrong. But if his intentions aren't pure and he wants a more sexual relation then be very careful because you are what people call jail-bait. Sex with a consenting minor is considered statutory rape until the minor, you, is of age. In my state it's 17 but I don't know what it is where you live. But just be careful no matter what sweetie!

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That is legally a pedophile if y'all start dating or doing more than that

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No we just talk nothing more then that
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Ok if y'all just talk that's fine just if y'all date or kiss or anything more he could get into some serious trouble
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Stay safe
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Will do, thanks
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It is pretty big of a difference.

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Wait till your like 17 or 18 because your a minor and if u guys are sexually active he ll go to jail it's statutory rape

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THANK YOU for saying that! There seems to be a LOT of young people who overlook this or are not aware of it. It DOES happen more than one would think.
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its really only up to you if you and him start dating he came not and i say CAN NOT touch you or kiss you. im also 16 well almost and i dated a guy who was 5 years older than me so what do you want XD good luck

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For now yes, it won't be when you're 18+.

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yes if you have sex with him because that is statutory rape

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